AA ---- how do you deal with that

[schttrj]

There was a thread regarding stages of approach in this forum... I fall in the category 2 I think where I know girls would slap across your face or it can possibly turn out to be good too but I still can't push myself that much that I approach every HB that I see and want to meet, I keep reminding myself the 3-second rule but most of the times, I just can't seem to make the move forward. I just freeze. I keep reminding myself that I should not care a damn about people or she likes being approached probably but still a fear keeps me from doing it. I just can't seem to get over that. At very few times, I get very ballsy or just so excited to challenge myself that I approach girls but it is no fun, damn it. Am I pushing myself too fast? Should I give myself more time? It is really taking a toll on me now. I am not enjoying, damn it. And I am fully convinced that if you want to take your success to the next level, you have to make approaches, cold or warm, whatever. Man, what do I do? Also that I am not a very social person, I don't like talking with people I don't like or feel connected to. So, I am bit of a shelled in person, who only comes out to teh people he likes or feel for.

Also, I work from 12.30 pm to 9.30 pm, and I wake up at around 8 or 8:30pm after sleeping at 11.30 or 12.00pm... So, I hardly get time to sarge, do you all sarge everyday or keep a day off for it? Do you have any routine for me I can follow?

 

[schttrj]

Look into this post first!

Ok, I think I was a little confusing in the previous post. Guys, I would like to ask something. Keeping it short and simple. Previously I didnot even approved Cold Approach as a good option but after hearing you guys, I am pretty much convinced that yes, we do have to do Cold Approach and it will be a fun after some time and even girls like being approached.

But here's the problem, I just can't bring myself to it. I am out sarging and pick out targets but my feet just doesn't move I think when I find one. She walks right past away by me and I keep kicking myself for I could not do it time and again. Why is this? See, I have made a promise that I would never give up. And I am really mentally pushing myself like anything, I am reminding myself what I read in the books and what you guys said to me, even I am reminding myself of the 3-second rule, but even then I just feel like I am standing on the edge of the mountain and I am even leaning out so that makes it even more possible to jump but I just can't jump. LOL.

Help me out! I am hating myself for this and I don't like losing any challenge even with myself.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

I just read the title (not full thread ) and i think all you need it this .

3 second rule - Approach girl within three seconds after seeing her .

Some openers - Just browse through forum and google for some good openers


Period.

Thats all you need .

The second you see the girl , just go there dont stop yourself . Even force yourself not to stop . Just continue , spit your opener and thats it .

By the time youll became better and better .

And , youll not regret for this after you see babes lined up waiting for you

 

[schttrj]

thanks, man.

u know what u r like a guru to me! i will do as u say. i will win against myself.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

thanks, man.

u know what u r like a guru to me! i will do as u say. i will win against myself.

Thanks for good words . Glad to be helpin you