A word to my bruthas and sistas about Online "Dating"

[HKgunslinger]

Don't. It is SO not worth it that it is not funny. Me, I have game IRL, but I made the mistake of spending the cold months mostly online "dating" or in other words trying to get dates via internet. What a total waste. The chicks you meet, they are either fat, older than their pictures, have MAD issues, or all of the above. One chick I met had her ex running bullsh*t to her about how I was telling everyone how I f*cked her and all kinds of SICK ****. She confronted me about it, thinking I really said that ****. I don't even know the motherf*cker! Scared the piss out of me, as I treated her with nothing but respect and kindness (of the macking sort of course). I don't need that kind of sh*t.

YOu gotta figure though, anyone who spends their life on a computer "chatting" with people, has basically no life.

I meet better quality women at the grocery store any f*cking day. Internet "Dating" is a sham.

Learn from my mistake, work on your real life game, at least with IRL you know what you are dealing with before wasting HOURS chatting online only to meet one giant headache after another. F*ck that noise, Jack.

I think I will now set my computer on fire.

'Slinger

Edited to add: If a woman thinks sarcasm is a form of humor; RUN THE F*CK AWAY! Sarcasm is a sign of bitterness and Cynicism, both are poison especially if you are a generally happy and charismatic person.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Are you finished with your rant? Did the cold cruel Internet slap you in the face about your perceived level of DJism? So just because you don't have the ability to sarge online it is an obvious waste of time? I bet you don't sarge in clubs or bars for the same fvcking reason...

Before the mods close the thread because of the countless other posts about this very thing has been written throughout the forum, I am going to explain why this pisses me off. Time after time there are guys who fail to succeed in certain aspects of DJing and so they scream to the world that it's all someone else's fault and they have no accountability for what happened. THAT IS SO AFC!

Learn from what didn't work, analyze it, make adjustments and do it again. Giving up is not what DJs do!

As for the Internet thing:

1. Learn how to market yourself.
2. Learn how to qualify.
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   That's the secret to not just sarging on the Net, but sarging ANYWHERE! There is no difference! Work on your qualifying skills because believe it or not, the women you meet on the street are the same women you meet on the Net. They have the same issues and if it takes you hours to figure that out, you have some work to do on yourself!
   
   HEY DIABLO, YOU CAN CLOSE IT NOW!!!

 

[HKgunslinger]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Are you finished with your rant? Did the cold cruel Internet slap you in the face about your perceived level of DJism? So just because you don't have the ability to sarge online it is an obvious waste of time? I bet you don't sarge in clubs or bars for the same fvcking reason...

Before the mods close the thread because of the countless other posts about this very thing has been written throughout the forum, I am going to explain why this pisses me off. Time after time there are guys who fail to succeed in certain aspects of DJing and so they scream to the world that it's all someone else's fault and they have no accountability for what happened. THAT IS SO AFC!

Learn from what didn't work, analyze it, make adjustments and do it again. Giving up is not what DJs do!

As for the Internet thing:

1. Learn how to market yourself.
2. Learn how to qualify.
   [/list=1]
   
   That's the secret to not just sarging on the Net, but sarging ANYWHERE! There is no difference! Work on your qualifying skills because believe it or not, the women you meet on the street are the same women you meet on the Net. They have the same issues and if it takes you hours to figure that out, you have some work to do on yourself!
   
   HEY DIABLO, YOU CAN CLOSE IT NOW!!!

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   Hey, Idiot Boy, learn to f*cking read, you dumbass.
   
   I said the women I have met from online LIE about themselves via photo and description. It's not worth the bull**** because I find time and time again that there is a REASON that most of these women DO resort to online dating. It's because within 5 minutes of meeting them IRL, anyone with any self-worth runs the other direction.
   
   You have no idea about me, I have had a couple of these women begging for sex when I meet IRL, and I mean literally, I know how the game works you dipsh*t. I didn't give it to them and won't either because they are not worth it.
   
   Read, R-E-A-D. I qualified fine, they didn't qualify IRL. My advice to DJ's is that this is heavily the rule, not the exception, and to keep everything IRL because the internet girls are not worth the time. Like I said, with IRL you can approach and let a girl solidly qualify herself within minutes, internet it can take days even weeks, and when you meet them it's all bogus.
   
   You may post on every subject, but it doesn't make you a master DJ. It makes you an idiot who spends too much time on the internet.
   
   'Slinger

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by HKgunslinger
Hey, Idiot Boy, learn to f*cking read, you dumbass.

I said the women I have met from online LIE about themselves via photo and description. It's not worth the bull**** because I find time and time again that there is a REASON that most of these women DO resort to online dating. It's because within 5 minutes of meeting them IRL, anyone with any self-worth runs the other direction.

You have no idea about me, I have had a couple of these women begging for sex when I meet IRL, and I mean literally, I know how the game works you dipsh*t. I didn't give it to them and won't either because they are not worth it.

Read, R-E-A-D. I qualified fine, they didn't qualify IRL. My advice to DJ's is that this is heavily the rule, not the exception, and to keep everything IRL because the internet girls are not worth the time. Like I said, with IRL you can approach and let a girl solidly qualify herself within minutes, internet it can take days even weeks, and when you meet them it's all bogus.

You may post on every subject, but it doesn't make you a master DJ. It makes you an idiot who spends too much time on the internet.

'Slinger

See, I told you guys, straight up AFC. Limited skills, limited success and an excess of frustration. Quick to snipe at those who are successful. PLUS he disguises his frustration as a public service message. What are you trying to do Slinger, prove that you're right by attempting to have more AFCs jump on your defeatist attitude bandwagon?

Look guys, I will admit that there are more guys in this forum with online experiences and attitudes like Slinger's. However there's more than a handful that are able to use their DJ skills effectively both online and off. The secret is that they don't see the two as separate sarging methods. Here's a question, how the hell can a woman qualify online but then she doesn't? Yeah, she may attempt to lie about herself but if a DJ knows how to qualify, he catches it sooner than later.

Anyway, do a search of the forum and you will find more than enough threads on how to build your success. There are guys posting their experiences and what has worked for them in getting closer to their success both online and off. Although they may not be there yet, they at least willing to put forth a sustained effort and not give up so easily.

 

[Vincent]

Closing before flame war.