"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A word on chicks, cars, confidence! I did an experiment.

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You could easily pull hot babes with a nice car at a club. I borrowed a BMW 750Li and pulled up to the girls who were lined up trying to get in. I had not a lot of confidence but girls was checking me out like crazy BTW, I had no problem getting numbers!

The same night, I pass back the BMW, and do the same thing in my 05 Grand Am. Girls didn't even notice! Not only that, Girls would barely warm up to me.

It goes to show you that a nice car can really help when you want to pull the best of women. Exotics like Bentley's and Lambo's get even more attention than Mercedes/ BMW. They all scream class and money!

Common cars really don't generate attention or attraction in any way, cuz they don't stand out!

A tricked out common car (ricer, pimpmobile, etc.) can help too, until you end up competing with that crazy guy who got a Mercedes!

If you got a common car, you'd better have a lot of confidence and game cuz you'll have plenty of competition. If you got a High-End car, confidence is totally natural and women can sense that. You can crush the competition easily cuz the attraction process will go much faster!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Haha not a bad idea. Except what are you going to do when you hang out with the girls you #-closed and you are back in the Grand Am?
 

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I used to know a guy that had a really nice car, many years ago, and he used to jokingly refer to it as his d!ck extender.

I use to laugh at him when he would say it, but I guess he knew by the results he got.
 

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Haha not a bad idea. Except what are you going to do when you hang out with the girls you #-closed and you are back in the Grand Am?
Which is why I build the attraction outside of the car as opposed to inside of it. I also keep the confidence and security that I had from driving the BMW. This can also help you weed out shallow b**ches. Try it out!
 

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nismo-4 said:
Which is why I build the attraction outside of the car as opposed to inside of it. I also keep the confidence and security that I had from driving the BMW. This can also help you weed out shallow b**ches. Try it out!
That's some smart sh*t there!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Shaking head........


Here's some food for thought. 99% of the women you meet in your life time won't be when your in your car or near your car.

Girls are definitely attracted to status (money, car etc), but that'll never GET the girl for you, only her attention. Much like a good looking guy will get the date based off looks alone, he won't get to fuvk her unless he's THAT good looking.

Develop your game!!! I've had $hitty cars and I've had nice cars..... doesn't make a difference, its all about confidence.




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Give a girl a ride in it, especially if it's something like a Maserati or Maybach! There's lots of room to f**k! Keep leather cleaner nearby and shampoo the carpets!

And to Pimp-Sicle, You said you've had nice cars and it's all about confidence. If you got a nice ass car your confidence will naturally be high. You won't need to fake it. If you went to the club following 2 guys, one has a S550 and the other has a 645ci, but you're in a, say, Nissan Stanza, your confidence would not be as high now would it? Of course it wouldn't, cuz that old ass car has "I don't feel like competing" written all over it!

Take the same scenario and give yourself a Lambo Diablo. Your confidence would be so much higher and it would show!

Also, a guy who got money/ status is guaranteed to have a harem of women who want to f**k and wash his balls etc. or a girlfriend, no matter how ugly or old he is.

Most women are materialistic to a degree. Those that aren't probably know they can't have a high class man or they're just making it seem that way until they find someone higher up on the scale.
 

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nismo-4 said:
You could easily pull hot babes with a nice car at a club. I borrowed a BMW 750Li and pulled up to the girls who were lined up trying to get in. I had not a lot of confidence but girls was checking me out like crazy BTW, I had no problem getting numbers!

The same night, I pass back the BMW, and do the same thing in my 05 Grand Am. Girls didn't even notice! Not only that, Girls would barely warm up to me.
This sounds like the old "bait and switch" to me.


It reminds me of that reality dating show "Average Joe" where 20 or 25 women compete for a guy who they have been told is a millionaire,but in reality he's just a construction worker and is no where near being a millionaire,lol.


Some people might have a problem with this thinking they're lying or being dishonest with women by doing this.


Now that reality show,yeah,there was lying there. They were flat out told one thing when it wasn't true,but as for using an expensive car?



I have no problem with that.


Hey....women wear fake hair,fake nails,fake eyelashes,paint their faces,get fake boobs,and such to attract men...and it works.


So we can do the same. Besides,all the car does is cancel out the approach stage,or just make it easier.

The guy still has to build comfort and make the first moves.





The only question I have for you Nismo-4 is.....









You got a BMW I can borrow? LOL....:crackup:





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It can help you to meet women, but not your game, the game is within you.

I used to have a 2001 Corvette that had long tube headers and a Corsa exhaust.

Girls would definitely notice it & say things like "Your car sounds pretty fast, you should give me a ride in it." I'd most always oblige and give them a fun ride in it, but then I had to use the game to seal the deal. An AFC guy with the same car would let them have a ride & then not try to make a move, so then that kind of makes the car irrelevant.
 

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Well its not secret that being rich helps you get girls. A nice car is an extension to that but....

Most people on here are not rich and the ones that could possibly afford payments on a newer BMW or Mercedes would have to give most of their money toward the car payment. So lets say you pick up a HOT girl w your BMW and you manage to convince her to come to your place. So you bring your BMW in front of a crappy house or an apartment complex... I wold love to see the look on her face. I know you could always take her to a expensive hotel room but cmon who wants to pay 140-200 for a expensive hotel room. Might as well get a hot escort and not go through all the trouble of picking up a girl. There is alwasy a chance that you might have sex with her in the car but do you really want to even have sex w a girl that flucks as soon as you meet up in a car. Chances are she has some kind of STD..

In conclusion , having a nice car might help you now but it will hurt you in the long run since you will be depended on the car. You will only attract gold diggers and sluts. If you are going for that than by all means go spend all your money on a BMW. As for me i will stick to my honda and work on my game so i can get a good girl that cares about me, not what kind of metal i got in my garage.

Last thing i want to mention is that i always used to laugh at people that used to drive 40+k escalades with 24inch rims and lived in my apartment complex paying 600/month for rent.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nismo-4 said:
You could easily pull hot babes with a nice car at a club. I borrowed a BMW 750Li and pulled up to the girls who were lined up trying to get in. I had not a lot of confidence but girls was checking me out like crazy BTW, I had no problem getting numbers!

The same night, I pass back the BMW, and do the same thing in my 05 Grand Am. Girls didn't even notice! Not only that, Girls would barely warm up to me.
I saw a segment on a show, I think it was Dr. Phil (just channel surfing), where they had a decent-looking actor pull up to a pub in a cheap car, and women wouldn't notice him. Then he did the same another night in a very expensive car with a suit to match, and he got a lot more attention from women.

What can you say ... women are always instinctively looking for a provider. Wealth is definitely one of the big factors.
 

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Igetit! said:
It reminds me of that reality dating show "Average Joe" where 20 or 25 women compete for a guy who they have been told is a millionaire,but in reality he's just a construction worker and is no where near being a millionaire,lol.
BUT, here's the kicker with that: they realized he wasn't a millionaire as the show progressed. He was stupid, quite frankly, saying things that just fell to the floor, and there were a lot of things he didn't know but the women knew.

Moral of the story: props will get women's attention, but they are not the only thing that matters.
 

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There is no doubt expensive cars will get you laid. I've seen the ladies on the curb myself watching for guys with nice cars to drive by. I'm sure Mr. BMW or Mercedes could get his thing polished within 10 minutes of meeting some of these girls if he went about it properly.

The catch is that these cars are very expensive. People will bury themselves in car payments and debts to buy get these things. If you can really afford it, then good for you. Go ahead and get the expensive car and the hos that follow. But newer model luxury cars will set you back $ 40, 50, 60, 100,000. A lot of the people showing off nice cars are really broke and in debt. If you're going to spend money to have sex it would be cheaper to just pay for the vagina upfront. Guys go broke trying to impress women.
 

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I've known a few players back in the day who would rent an expensive car for a week or two, long enough to land a chic, then tell her it was in the shop and then suddenly the engine was shot and they sold it quick so they wouldn't be upside down in it. Now they got a chic riding around in their mustang or grand am.

Plenty of people go to vegas or atlanta and rent expensive cars for the time they are there. Movie stars and singers are known for that in places like vegas. No Lambo, no women. A bmw or benz is like a honda there.

I also know players who have 4-5 roomates or live at home so they can afford that shiny expensive car. The ones who live at home usually get suites at a really nice hotel and make up some excuse about why she can't come to his house.

It's all too much work for me, but it does work. I've seen it.
 

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Fools.

If you rely on a car to get women, you need serious work on your inner game.

You can't bring a car into the club.

Most of the time you meet women, your car won't be around. Then what?

All you're going to attract is unhealthy women.

But if you already have women attracted to you, and you pick her up for the first date in a nice car and don't act like it's a big deal (which it certainly isn't), that'll work for you MUCH better.

That being said, I'm looking for a '69 Mustang myself. I don't care about engine size or speed, it just needs to be clean and in good mechanical condition.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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These threads are stupid. It doesn't help the normal guy. Of course cars help with attraction, but does that help the average guy's confidence? Let's help each other instead of introducing concepts that could make us feel more depressed.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I've known a few players back in the day who would rent an expensive car for a week or two, long enough to land a chic,.
The hos are on to that little rental-car scam.
 

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Where I live having a big jacked up truck is a girl magnet haha.

Personally, I would rather save the money and invest in nice clothes and a nice place. All the while improving my game which costs zero dollars. Of course luxury cars are going make getting women easier otherwise why the hell would guys put themselves in financial risk owning them?

Some comedian said something along the lines "a man would sleep in a cardboard box if he could still get women"
 

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nismo-4 said:
Give a girl a ride in it, especially if it's something like a Maserati or Maybach! There's lots of room to f**k! Keep leather cleaner nearby and shampoo the carpets!

And to Pimp-Sicle, You said you've had nice cars and it's all about confidence. If you got a nice ass car your confidence will naturally be high. You won't need to fake it. If you went to the club following 2 guys, one has a S550 and the other has a 645ci, but you're in a, say, Nissan Stanza, your confidence would not be as high now would it? Of course it wouldn't, cuz that old ass car has "I don't feel like competing" written all over it!

Take the same scenario and give yourself a Lambo Diablo. Your confidence would be so much higher and it would show!

Also, a guy who got money/ status is guaranteed to have a harem of women who want to f**k and wash his balls etc. or a girlfriend, no matter how ugly or old he is.

Most women are materialistic to a degree. Those that aren't probably know they can't have a high class man or they're just making it seem that way until they find someone higher up on the scale.


LOL... if you quoted the entire setence I said, "I've had $hitty cars and nice cars."


The car I drive has ABSOLUTELY NO BEARING on what girls I pull.....


Keep living in your rap video world, hoping a girl lands in your lap. I'll be the guy talking to her at the bar while your polishing your friend's BMW in the parking lot.





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"Here's some food for thought. 99% of the women you meet in your life time won't be when your in your car or near your car."

So? You can still give girls rides in your car.

And your point is????? A girl isn't going to want to fuvk you because of your car. She's gonna wann fuvk you because she's attracted to you!! Your car will not do $hit to influence this..... period





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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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