“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A women's fantasy that's a bit scary

Ricky

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I was out with a girl I know last week and after drinking a bit the drunk talk starts. This girl has a fantasy that I've heard from a couple of girls before and it always shocks me a bit but I guess it might be a bit of a common fantasy for women.

Anyways i know her boyfriend and she talked about how one night she was drunk with him and she tells him she wants to have a 3 way with GET THIS him and another guy who we also know!

This same fantasy was relayed to me by my friends wife a few years back and at the time I think she wanted me to be the third person.

Of course it creeped me out coming from my friends wife. But the girl other the weekend is quite hot so I can see how some guys would do it. For the record this girl said her boyfriend would only do it if he had a 3 way with her and another girl first. I have a feeling he'd do that then dump her though as their relationship is a bit shaky anyways.

So the questions of the day are:

How hot would a girl have to be for you to double team her with another guy?

Has your girlfriend ever asked you to doublestuff her (one of my exes did recently but I said no).

Would you do it?

Are there alot of hoes out there that want this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are you kidding? Virtually every woman wants to be "spit roasted", DP'd, tag-teamed, etc.

It's whether or not they admit it is the question.

As for would I ever... uh... no telling how my drunk mind works sometimes. So far, I have to say that hairy dudes would make me lose my "functionality" in the situation. But, I've never been in the situation, so I've never had to chose. I wouldn't commit to doing it sober. If pulled into a situation when I was drunk, who knows, maybe. It would have to be one smokin' hot betty, and I'd have to be at a level of drunk where I probably wouldn't remember... as for the other guy...

*shudder*

Yeeesh - I'm far too sober to be discussing this.
 

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I've done that before. It is a little weird at first, but if you don't look at the guy, you will be fine. It's kinda hard to look at the guy anyway in that situation so it's not too bad. I just focused on looking at the girl and it worked alright. And, yes lots of women love this fantasy and also want DPed as well.
 

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Are you kidding? Virtually every woman wants to be "spit roasted", DP'd, tag-teamed, etc.
yes virtually every loose chick that you know. Be rational, not every woman wants to get stuffed by two guys, yes woman are sexual beings...it doesnt mean they are all wh0res and slvts.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt said:
'spit roasted,' lol :)

The ones that don't want a mmf 3som usually want a ffm 3som.
^^^ I need to find more girls who are up for the FFM :rockon:

As far as the original question. Sober I would never participate in a MMF. If on the other hand I had ALOT to drink... who knows. Still I doubt it. I've never had to choose though.

As far as it being a fantasy of women, just think, do you as a man often fantasize about doing 2-3 girls at the same time? I know I do. It's only logical women have the same fantasies.
 

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Oh yeah, i know some women that have said that dream about having 4 or 5 hung, built guys show up at her door and take advantage of her in a circle. I told her, i have that same fantasty of 5 girls showing up at my door.
 

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Vulpine said:
Are you kidding? Virtually every woman wants to be "spit roasted", DP'd, tag-teamed, etc.
Attention wh0res!!! :cuss:
 

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Charm&Style said:
yes virtually every loose chick that you know. Be rational, not every woman wants to get stuffed by two guys, yes woman are sexual beings...it doesnt mean they are all wh0res and slvts.
*Hands C&S a cup of coffee*

Good morning, sunshine. Are you awake yet?

Women don't always vocalize their fantasies because they don't want to be thought of as s1uts.

[sarcasm]I'm sorry.
You know what, you're right, sex is dirty. You shouldn't be having sex unless for procreation.[/sarcasm]

lol@FD'A throwing up the "A-Dubs"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LMAO @ ^^^^^^

BTW, Vulpine is spot on. I heard some crazy sh1t last time I got a group of women drunk around me. And I was sober, so I could get it all.

I wonder how I used to rationalize all this shyt in my AFC days.
 

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I've never been interested in lezzie porn, and so a threesome in my favor has never appealed to me. It wouldn't bother me if a girl I was seeing wanted that, so long as she wasn't interested in getting DPed by my twin brother and me.

Unfortunately, that's every girl's dream. My life is hard.
 

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I've never done it. I've come close.

My girl has fantasies about it. I describe the scenario as we have sex and she gets off on it. I've even began to think I would like to see her in this situation. I offer but she always refuses saying she thinks it will ruin us if I watch her do another guy.

To be fair, she offers me female threesomes. but I tell her the same thing.
 

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One of the girls I'm seeing told me this is one (among much other kinky sh1t) of her fantasies. I'd never do it, but it doesn't bother me that she or other women think of it. It certainly doesn't make her a ***** or a slut (grow up Charm&Style). I have tons of fantasies I know will never be fulfilled, and realistically I don't want to fulfill some of them.

Fortunately she's bi and has never had a threesome with another girl...yet ;)
 

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Shiftkey said:
One of the girls I'm seeing told me this is one (among much other kinky sh1t) of her fantasies. I'd never do it, but it doesn't bother me that she or other women think of it. It certainly doesn't make her a ***** or a slut (grow up Charm&Style). I have tons of fantasies I know will never be fulfilled, and realistically I don't want to fulfill some of them.

Fortunately she's bi and has never had a threesome with another girl...yet ;)
You are right. It's not right or wrong, it's just reality.

I wanna be screwed by you
but anyone else will do
I wanna be screwed by you and you and you and you....!

Lords Of Acid - Scrood Bi U
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actually with my ex I wouldn't mind watching her. It'd be like a live porn show. But I don't want to be involved per se. Too many problems.
 

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I've done MFF (last week actually) and MMF.

Menage de'trio is, in my opinion, kinda over-hyped. The first time I was in a mff, I didn't know what to do. There were boobies to the right and boobies to the left, and clueless me in the middle. MMF is okay as long as you don't touch the other guy and keep your mind focused on the chick. Try it out before you jugde.

And yes, alot of women want to get shafted their brains out. The most innocent looking girl I know loves to get DTed.
 

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Centaurion said:
Menage de'trio is, in my opinion, kinda over-hyped...
I somewhat agree. I've only had and care to have MFF and it does have its moments during the experience but the possible repercussions after the act tends to be a bit overwhelming if you're a typical guy.

A good short movie that depicts this is "Six Months of Darkness, Six Months of Light." You may be able to watch it online, it was once on iFilm.com. It's about a man in an unfulfilled marriage that suggests the to his wife inviting another woman into their bedroom for a single night. In a nutshell, two plus one doesn't always equal three.
 
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