A womans Timing

[Matty838]

As some of you know i just finished on another thread about picking a girl out of a bunch of other girls i know...

Well i picked the girl and are now set on her, only problem is i found out she has just stopped dating another guy a few weeks before I met her (I've known her about 3 months or something)


So you all know I'm a Christian and I am glad about it...
Anyway back to the Girl, When we first met we really clicked, and we talked all night for hours and then we were getting along so well that EVERYONE that saw us thought we were already going out and were asking how long and everything.

Anyway I KNOW she is totaly over her last guy and doesnt look back because shes looking for another Christian guy (coz her last guy was not quite Christian and i dunno (i havent talked to her bout it, just over heard) anyway she seems interested in me and I've already planned a kinda date with her (we are going to the shops and movies) I dont know whether i should make it official yet or keep it in the almost there stage...

We have already seen a movie at Church and were sitting next to each other on the floor cuddling up (and eating popcorn in icing sugar. lol)

Well we are fairly close and everything i have been using kino and all but i dont know if its too quick from her last relationship (coz i dont want it too seem as tho she's going from guy to guy, then it would be a lot easier to dump me if it is too soon) I know she is looking and i like her a fair amount and am planning on dating her in the future

so i guess im just asking for advise, any help will do, thx

 

[BlaKTooth]

Originally posted by Matty838

Anyway back to the Girl, When we first met we really clicked, and we talked all night for hours and then we were getting along so well that EVERYONE that saw us thought we were already going out and were asking how long and everything.

To start with, that's a pretty bad introduction with a girl. You jumped straight for the friends zone by talking for hours.....

you also allowed people to repeatedly ask if u were going out. Unless you denied it and joked about it, thats a huge turnoff--the girl subconsciously thinks that she can already have you exclusive after your first meeting.

Next, you both watched a movie with you two cuddled up, but she hasn't mentioned anything sexual at all to you. You know what idea it seems she has of you?

---> "Here's my new best guy friend! No, he's not my boy friend! Want proof? Watch the video--we were cuddling! Aw, he's just like a teddy bear....

Finally, you're gonna go shopping and to a movie. Now, going to a movie is a bad first date as is, but, unless you really like shopping, why the hell are you going shopping for a first date!

Shopping + movie isnt a date.... It's a friendly outing.


So, advice? First of, relax. Stop thinking that you have to hang out with her every second! If you get offered to go out again, only go if you really like the activity, not the person.


Also, be prepared to let this one go... It gonna be near impossible to do anything with this girl now. Don't worry about it, it happens.

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

Blaktooth has no idea what he's talking about. Good job, regurgitate everything you've read on this site and market it as your own experiences. How about this? don't give advice unless you're qualified to do so.

and matty, you're an attention *****. Stop making threads about these so-called "problems" that aren't really problems at all. I can summarize your entire post into one sentence: "Hey guys, I met a girl and we're going to go out, now here's a made up problem just so I have a reason to make a thread about what a DJ I am."

 

[BlaKTooth]

That is firsthand experience, buddy. Some of us actually do interact with girls off of this site

True though, I was harsh with the "near impossible" quote. That's not true; his relationship can still sail on smoothly.

 

[Matty838]

Hey guys i just thought i would let u know i was going shopping as a friends thing and now we are going out and very into each other, i have made it all so i am in control and that she does whatever i want,

how sweet is that, thx for the help/critisism, it wasnt true, nothing u said was right, and this is probbably gonna be my last post coz im good enough with chicks without this rubbish on the site.

So u guys dont know what your talking about and I'm listening to myself not some rubbishy site where people who cant get chicks try and give advise

(This site has turned out to be nothing but a waste of time for me and i hope all you other people out there will realise the same thing)

Probably the last ever post from Matty838

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

good for you not needing this site. have fun in the real world, I'm sure you'll do just fine. I'd rather have you attention whoring out there rather than on here too, so go ahead and forget this site.