A Woman's Past

[tmac15]

Alright fellas,

Long story short. I've been with this girl for a few months now. Things are going real well. She is everything i'm looking for dhe's into me, I'm into her. I get it when I want.

I was at this wedding this past wknd with her. Her ex was there with someone else. They didn't speak from what I could see. She told me she broke up with him. However, I can't get past the fact that she was with him. Don't know the guy at all. How do you get over these insecurities of someone's past? I've been around the block also, but I can't seem to get over a woman's past.

Anyone ever else have these problems? If so please give me some pointer and tips?

 

[mothballs]

She's with you and not him... obviously you're better than him in her eyes.

 

[kingy]

hey man,

you need to develop a stronger sense of who you are that isnt tied up on a womans approval. Think about it logically why do you care who the woman used to be with? does he have a bigger ****? its all irelevant, just keep reading self development, learning and growing as a person and you will start to loose those insecurities.

Its like if a girl masterbates whilest thinking of someone else, its just the ego saying ouch that hurts my sense of self. Adventurally if u stick in there and keep growing as a person it all dissapears, i was coming from a similar place to you ;-)

p.s. it doesnt matter who is better than who in her eyes, that is just ego talking again. when you get such a strong sense of who you are you really dont look externally for that stuff at all. e.g. you dont need to make rationalisations to help yourself.

hope that helps

 

[DonGorgon]

She's with you and not him... obviously you're better than him in her eyes.

not really better just next... she will be with many after you also .. we are just animals like dogs and cats so stop complicating the issue...

 

[mothballs]

not really better just next... she will be with many after you also .. we are just animals like dogs and cats so stop complicating the issue...

Jesus man, way to overanalyze it. I was just trying to give him a positive mindset... ****.

 

[DonGorgon]

Jesus man, way to overanalyze it. I was just trying to give him a positive mindset... ****.

lol... I did not analyze at all, i simply provided the painful truth.. the truth is more important than a pseudo positive mind set induced by information that is not true.