"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A Woman's Past

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tmac15

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Alright fellas,

Long story short. I've been with this girl for a few months now. Things are going real well. She is everything i'm looking for dhe's into me, I'm into her. I get it when I want.

I was at this wedding this past wknd with her. Her ex was there with someone else. They didn't speak from what I could see. She told me she broke up with him. However, I can't get past the fact that she was with him. Don't know the guy at all. How do you get over these insecurities of someone's past? I've been around the block also, but I can't seem to get over a woman's past.

Anyone ever else have these problems? If so please give me some pointer and tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mothballs

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She's with you and not him... obviously you're better than him in her eyes.
 
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hey man,

you need to develop a stronger sense of who you are that isnt tied up on a womans approval. Think about it logically why do you care who the woman used to be with? does he have a bigger ****? its all irelevant, just keep reading self development, learning and growing as a person and you will start to loose those insecurities.

Its like if a girl masterbates whilest thinking of someone else, its just the ego saying ouch that hurts my sense of self. Adventurally if u stick in there and keep growing as a person it all dissapears, i was coming from a similar place to you ;-)

p.s. it doesnt matter who is better than who in her eyes, that is just ego talking again. when you get such a strong sense of who you are you really dont look externally for that stuff at all. e.g. you dont need to make rationalisations to help yourself.

hope that helps
 
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mothballs

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DonGorgon said:
not really better just next... she will be with many after you also .. we are just animals like dogs and cats so stop complicating the issue...
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Jesus man, way to overanalyze it. I was just trying to give him a positive mindset... ****.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon

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mothballs said:
Jesus man, way to overanalyze it. I was just trying to give him a positive mindset... ****.
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lol... I did not analyze at all, i simply provided the painful truth.. the truth is more important than a pseudo positive mind set induced by information that is not true.
 
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