A girl that i know is going through a bad divorce. shes pretty much on the street right now...living with friends...has had her kids taken away already by her mom and ex husband ( long story ).
So from the beginning i haven't seen this girl in years since she got married. in Feb after her ex leaves her for the THIRD time since they have been married, we start hanging out. I have been helping her out, being there for her ect. ect. As the days and weeks go on we start getting close but she never wants to do anything ( physical ). as the months go on we are still just friends but i start getting attached to her and her kids. we go out a lot but as friends, and she goes out with her ex BF from along time ago and other guys..partying hard...drinking hard ect ect. i can totally see she rebounding BIG TIME!
we split way a couple times but always seemed to make up. she calls me one night after about a month without speaking and wants to go out. we go out have some drinks and while at the bar she leans over and we just start going at it. i first think im golden..shes in to me right...
so we start hanging out pretty much every day..but she never wants to get physical. shes always like we are friends blah blah blah. every time we go out in public she REAL flirty with me..and we always end up kissing.
getting closer to the present, she gets kicked out of her parents house...losses her kids. and shes living with friends. in the mean time i get laid off and she ends up getting a hotel for a week. during that week we are together the whole time. one night after some light drinking we pass out together. i wake up in the middle of the night with her hand rubbing my ****. one thing leads to another and i end up going down on her. we are having fun for about 2 hours, then all of the sudden..shes like WE cant do this...my heads ****ing killing me and we cant do this! im like WTF and i go home. i get a call the next morning, she like about last night i feel bad...i didn't want our relationship to move like that. acouple nights later im with her and we're watching TV and shes putting on some lip gloss and shes like " how does this taste?!? " and leans over and we kiss for awhile!
after she gets kicked out of the room..shes living with another friend. one night while she was there we are all drinking and her friends to go bed. my girl start FLIPPING out...saying **** YOU...your just like every other guy. and starts balling about losing her kids this and that. then she like " i love you i have feeling for you...i can honestly say I LOVE YOU " im kinda taken back..didnt know what to say. she asks me " if you were my man tomorrow would you still treat me the same??? " " then shes like but we'er just friend...blah blah blah. so i get up and leave. the next day she leave that place and goes to another friends. since then i have not seen her and its been about a month. she sent me a couple text couple weeks ago saying that she was sorry for the way she treated me..and that she has a problem pushing away the people she loves...
i hear from her close friend that shes " dating " some 50 year old rich guy (shes 28) now and i really haven't heard much from her..
how can a woman say she loves me...has feelings for me...but "we're just friend". and when ever we get physical..she always makes up some excuses...even tho its happened multiple times!
i know she has a lot of problems...has a past..has a pretty messed up family
i get some many mixed feelings from her and mix signals...what tha hell do i do??
sorry for the long rant!
So from the beginning i haven't seen this girl in years since she got married. in Feb after her ex leaves her for the THIRD time since they have been married, we start hanging out. I have been helping her out, being there for her ect. ect. As the days and weeks go on we start getting close but she never wants to do anything ( physical ). as the months go on we are still just friends but i start getting attached to her and her kids. we go out a lot but as friends, and she goes out with her ex BF from along time ago and other guys..partying hard...drinking hard ect ect. i can totally see she rebounding BIG TIME!
we split way a couple times but always seemed to make up. she calls me one night after about a month without speaking and wants to go out. we go out have some drinks and while at the bar she leans over and we just start going at it. i first think im golden..shes in to me right...
so we start hanging out pretty much every day..but she never wants to get physical. shes always like we are friends blah blah blah. every time we go out in public she REAL flirty with me..and we always end up kissing.
getting closer to the present, she gets kicked out of her parents house...losses her kids. and shes living with friends. in the mean time i get laid off and she ends up getting a hotel for a week. during that week we are together the whole time. one night after some light drinking we pass out together. i wake up in the middle of the night with her hand rubbing my ****. one thing leads to another and i end up going down on her. we are having fun for about 2 hours, then all of the sudden..shes like WE cant do this...my heads ****ing killing me and we cant do this! im like WTF and i go home. i get a call the next morning, she like about last night i feel bad...i didn't want our relationship to move like that. acouple nights later im with her and we're watching TV and shes putting on some lip gloss and shes like " how does this taste?!? " and leans over and we kiss for awhile!
after she gets kicked out of the room..shes living with another friend. one night while she was there we are all drinking and her friends to go bed. my girl start FLIPPING out...saying **** YOU...your just like every other guy. and starts balling about losing her kids this and that. then she like " i love you i have feeling for you...i can honestly say I LOVE YOU " im kinda taken back..didnt know what to say. she asks me " if you were my man tomorrow would you still treat me the same??? " " then shes like but we'er just friend...blah blah blah. so i get up and leave. the next day she leave that place and goes to another friends. since then i have not seen her and its been about a month. she sent me a couple text couple weeks ago saying that she was sorry for the way she treated me..and that she has a problem pushing away the people she loves...
i hear from her close friend that shes " dating " some 50 year old rich guy (shes 28) now and i really haven't heard much from her..
how can a woman say she loves me...has feelings for me...but "we're just friend". and when ever we get physical..she always makes up some excuses...even tho its happened multiple times!
i know she has a lot of problems...has a past..has a pretty messed up family
i get some many mixed feelings from her and mix signals...what tha hell do i do??
sorry for the long rant!
