A Woman Tells You Why You Should Buy Her A Drink!!!

[##17]

I seriously wonder what the motives are of the women who come on here foisting their feminist agenda, or who come on here clearly Attention Whoring (like Moonlighting). How long have iggi and Wyldfire been lurking?

Scratch that. I KNOW what their motives are. Guess it shows that women just have to try to get themselves control.

 

[Interceptor]

Actually, IMO I feel that Iqqi was trying to help shed some light on some thing. But I don't think it may have come across the way she thought it would.

(BTW, I'm still not convinced that buying a stranger a drink is a good idea. There's still too much weirdenss factor around it. The general rule should be that you can offer to buy a drink once the rapport is there, not before. Buying stranger's drinks just reeks of supplication and neediness. EVen if it's not your intention.)

As for Moonlight, I believe there was speculation that it was actually a GUY.

I like the Iq, even when her advice is kooky.

 

[Metro3pilot]

One of womens 10 biggest lies

I have never done anything like this before

 

[iqqi]

One of womens 10 biggest lies

Well, biotch, its the truth. Why would I lie on an internet formu.\


:I AM DRUNK> LOL.

 

[Metro3pilot]

Well, biotch, its the truth

I'm sorry you must have me confused with someone, perhaps with an AFC who would do anything to have the attention of a female ...

is this site destined to be another askmen.com AKA Loveshack lite ........ complete with feminized, disney love fantasy replies, and chicks that think it's a co-ed site ?

 

[HoneyHitter]

Wtf?!

I never buy ANY mature person drinks if I don't have something special to celebrate with him/her. Especially NOT in the club. If you can't afford to buy a drink, what are you doing there in the first place!
Anyone who asks or expects me to buy them drinks shows me that they don't know how to set their priorities. Low value, THAT's what they are. Find a (better) job or quit smoking.

If my friend needs a place to sleep, I let him stay in my house. If he got fired and he's REALLY broke, I invite him for dinner or share a breakfast until he sorts out his financial situation. (Not just take advantage of my help without making any progress in his own life because he's in denial of his problems!)

I help people get ahead in life. It's in my nature. But I can't stand it when people think you're a dumb ass when you're a compassionate person. I give because I love life and I love to see the world get better, not because I have hidden/unspoken expectations.

The first example Iqqi gave is about a couple of guys who are hiding their insecurity and trying to act ****y. It really has NOTHING to do with offering someone a drink. They weren't really enjoying themselves and being self-conscious. That's why they sticked like glue to the first two girls who DIDN'T immediately blow them out.

 

[drmeathead]

i have no problem buying a girl i am talking to if i am in need of another drink. that is just the way i am. of course i am also the type of guy that makes a point of buying the first round when i go out with my friends.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

i have no problem buying a girl i am talking to if i am in need of another drink. that is just the way i am. of course i am also the type of guy that makes a point of buying the first round when i go out with my friends.

Why?

 

[Centaurion]

I have never done anything like this before!

AHAHAHA this is the funniest sh!t I've ever read on this forum. :rock:

It's funny how EVERY women try to rationlize their action by saying this. Just like the other month, when I picked up a women at a bar, went back to my place and drilled her a*s (literally!) for a good hour or two.

Guess what she said the next morning? Yeah..."I have never done anything like this before!" uhuh

 

[KarmaSutra]

Well, biotch, its the truth. Why would I lie on an internet formu.\


:I AM DRUNK> LOL.

I called your dumbass out before and I'm doing it again, although this time it's slightly different.

Anyone who spouts this pro-chick bullsh!t is either a d!ck puller out-er and nut puller out-er or a goddamned trans-testicle.

And you attention grabbing queen, you probably can't even buy beer yet.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

A WOMAN Tells You Why You SHould buy her a Drink

A Woman, huh? Are you sure you don't want to revise this IQQI?

 

[iqqi]

A WOMAN Tells You Why You SHould buy her a Drink

A Woman, huh? Are you sure you don't want to revise this IQQI?

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Anyways, since my whole point of this thread was lost on those of you who can't seem to stay away and flame, I will reiterate: you should not be afraid to buy anyone a $5 drink, and you also should not be afraid of how you look to someone because of it.

Anything you do like this should be done NOT out of duty, or hoping someone will "owe" you something... like their complete interest.

Just like women get upset when they give up the booty and it turns out the guy isn't really into HER. Well... she shouldn't be giving up the booty JUST to get a guy to like her. (This is common.) And you guys shouldn't be buying drinks just to get a girl to like you, or thinking that would even work!

A drink is just a gesture so to speak. Some use it with the wrong intentions and mindset, some don't. IF it is that tricky to you, then don't do it! For the record... it really ISN'T that complicated.

Besides all that. I am kind of disturbed sometimes at how bitter and hateful some of you can be towards someone with a different opinion than you, JUST BECAUSE/ESPECIALLY BECAUSE they are female. Are you unable to see how this translates into real life for you?

I will spell it out.

As long as you are bitter and hateful, you will never be happy.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I will spell it out.

As long as you are bitter and hateful, you will never be happy.

So if I buy a woman a drink it will keep me from being bitter and hateful or will it keep her from being being bitter and hateful?

 

[drmeathead]

Why?

for a woman id offer to buy if i am going to the bar to get a drink. i would do the same for anyone. it is more of a manners thing than anything. i buy a round for the boys first for two reasons one it draws a crowd around me when i walk in and pass out that first celebrated beer. two it looks good when i am talkin to some girl nearby and someone walks up to me with another of what ever i am drinking

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

for a woman id offer to buy if i am going to the bar to get a drink. i would do the same for anyone. it is more of a manners thing than anything. i buy a round for the boys first for two reasons one it draws a crowd around me when i walk in and pass out that first celebrated beer. two it looks good when i am talkin to some girl nearby and someone walks up to me with another of what ever i am drinking

Ahhh... So what else do you give away? My mortgage is due in a couple of weeks. I can't accept your credit card (yet) and so as not to burden you by asking you to write a check and waiting for it to clear, I'll set up a PayPal account that you can transfer the funds to.

 

[ketostix]

Just like women get upset when they give up the booty and it turns out the guy isn't really into HER. Well... she shouldn't be giving up the booty JUST to get a guy to like her. (This is common.) And you guys shouldn't be buying drinks just to get a girl to like you, or thinking that would even work!

Oh that's the only reason a girl gives up the booty, so the guy will like her. And not because she's horny and it feels good to her and she just plain wants to do it.

Besides all that. I am kind of disturbed sometimes at how bitter and hateful some of you can be towards someone with a different opinion than you, JUST BECAUSE/ESPECIALLY BECAUSE they are female.

So if a guy disagrees with you and gives valid reasons he's really just bitter and hateful and doing it just because he's discriminating against a woman? Wa wa wa bitter men discriminating just because it's a woman. When have I heard this before from a woman

I never said that your point wasn't valid that when for example you buy a girl a drink you shouldn't make her feel obligated. But my point was essentially she shouldn't feel obligated unless she's knows she has no interest in the guy..

 

[ketostix]

Ahhh... So what else do you give away? My mortgage is due in a couple of weeks. I can't accept your credit card (yet) and so as not to burden you by asking you to write a check and waiting for it to clear, I'll set up a PayPal account that you can transfer the funds to.

F'D is Scrooge. j/k

 

[Interceptor]

I think for the most part, again...the rule is if there's no rapport, then there's no buying anything.
And even then....no expectation of anything.
I mean, there should at least be a "Thank you" for the kind gesture,. But guys should not go thinking "Oh, man!! I'm gonna get the pvssy tonight!!"
just be cool.
If there's rapport, then it's perfectly fine. Don't feel obligated. And be wary of anyone that makes you feel that way.
Again, it goes against our social norms ( at least in US) we just don't buy complete strangers things.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

F'D is Scrooge. j/k

NO COAL FOR YOU!!! NOW GET BACK TO WORK!!! :cuss:

 

[drmeathead]

Ahhh... So what else do you give away? My mortgage is due in a couple of weeks. I can't accept your credit card (yet) and so as not to burden you by asking you to write a check and waiting for it to clear, I'll set up a PayPal account that you can transfer the funds to.

oh ok lemme know