“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A woman taking the initiative?!?!

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Hi guys . . .

. . .I was just giving the matter some thought . . Are you the same as me in being highly suspicious of women that show some aggression and take the initiative . . .:confused: . . .To me a girl that raises the possibility of a sexual encounter and taking controll, by saying things such as " Come on . .I'm taking you out to dinner", is highly supect . . :down:

. . .To my mind , if you submit to a girl that is of such mindset it entails losing some self respect and losing the initiative . . Even if this does lead to sex, such a girl can get rid of you as quickly as she acquired you . . .

. . . . .If the girl is truly interested, surely she would give you a second chance . . .Am I right in that such girls are best avoided . . .??? I only ask because I do seem to encounter such girls more frequently after I arrived here . .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I always thought that guys that are turned off by women who take the initiative are really just little boys that are intimidated by a woman's sexuality.
 

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No . .A woman becomes mine , not when she decides but when I take her . . . . .

. . . .But thanks for yr contributions . .:)
 

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:crackup: You didn't understand what I left out...

But thanks for your "reply".
Kids say the darndest things!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Men = Aggressor.
Women = Submissive.

It cannot be the other way around!! She might just be doing something nice for you. But, if she is always taking charge, cut her.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Men = Aggressor.
Women = Submissive.

It cannot be the other way around!! She might just be doing something nice for you. But, if she is always taking charge, cut her.
I totally agree with the above . . I just see this as an attempt to get her hooks in to you . . So watch out . . .All I'm saying is that it payes not too take the bait and play safe>>>:)
 

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Kerpal said:
So let her take you out and pay for your dinner, but don't have sex with her until a night where you take her out. That way you can have your cake and eat it too :D
You hit the nail on the head there . .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

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