"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Pfffffttttttt

This reads out like a rant from an imbittered B*tch at the most bitter time of the month if you know what i mean. DJ's, skip the list, youjust might save 5 minutes out of your life you may never get back.
 

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10. LAZY. Yep, agree with that. Guys should get off their butts and risk rejection.

9. STANDARDS AND EXPECTATIONS ARE RIDICULOUS. Ummm... yeah, ok, that's very possible.

8. YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE GRACEFULLY. Yep, very important, agree with that one.

7. YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO PACKAGE YOURSELF. Yep, possible, but only because the vast majority of women are shallow and aren't willing to give an ordinary guy a chance unless he looks like an alpha male.

6. YOU ARE BORING, BORING, BORING! Yep, agree with this one. Gotta be interesting, funny, charming, etc.

5. YOU HAVE NO PATIENCE. Yep, can't rush things, gotta take your time.

4. YOU’RE NOT NICE. You don’t treat women with respect... blah blah blah... ok, now we're getting just downright silly here. It's not even a question that nice guys finish last. You want the bad boy - the challenge - you can "fix". Prepare to be DJ'd!

3. YOU DON’T LISTEN TO US AT ALL. You are psychologically incapable of understanding the word “No”. You don’t hear us when we tell you our hopes and dreams... yadda yadda yadda... Ok, you're saying you want a sensitive guy? Maybe after we've gone LTR. Don't tell me this bullshyt... I learned it the hard way during my AFC days, babe! Truth is, if we start talking about your feelings too soon, suddenly we're "wimps"... you forget us and go for the guys who treat you like crap.

2. YOU HAVE NO CLUE HOW TO PLEASE A WOMAN IN BED. Excuse me, but doesn't it take two to tango? If all you do is lie there and expect a porn star experience, you're going to be disappointed. Sex ain't like welfare... you gotta work it to get paid off.

1. YOU JUST DON’T GET IT. You haven’t a clue. You don’t understand women and don’t even want to try.... whine whine whine blah blah blah what the phuck ever you say. When we didn't "get it", we were AFCs. Now we "get it", and we are DJs!
 

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9. STANDARDS AND EXPECTATIONS ARE RIDICULOUS.

The same could be said of women in most of those categories.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by FlyGuy
9. STANDARDS AND EXPECTATIONS ARE RIDICULOUS.

The same could be said of women in most of those categories.
I'd say this woman is frustrated and probably falls into every one of those categories herself too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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4. YOU’RE NOT NICE. You don’t treat women with respect. You’re a closet misogynist or psychopath bent on hurting us. You expect every woman to spread her legs wide open for you. You don’t want to know us, not really. You just want to **** us and discard us. You won’t call us afterwards, even though you say you will. You forget we have feelings. You’re mean, selfish, crazy, vain, or just ****ing NUTS. Get lost, loser


...Hey, no arguement there!
 
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