"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I read this post on Reddit:
https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/5pt40s

From what I see among my friends and people I know, it actually seems like a really good guide to understanding what your woman should be like, if you’re interested in a long term relationship with her.


It’s kind of a balancing act, something that’s very hard for a woman to maintain, and there will be women who switch between these phases without being able to hold that balance. The thing is, if she starts to fall off track, it’s your job as a man to help her find her way back. And the way you do that has to be appropriate.


For example, if your woman becomes a mother and forgets to be your slut, then you have to reestablish that balance. So even if she starts disrespecting you, it’s not just about hormones, it’s more about her “current role” in a broader sense.


So before becoming a mother, she might really want to be wild in bed, but once that desire is fulfilled, she becomes more of a mom, a caretaker, and you need to accept that, but also make sure your boundaries are respected.


Do you guys notice these patterns in long term relationships around you? People constantly shifting?


As a man, you have to know what’s going on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So if I love having wild sex, and the moment she becomes a mom I have to accept that I won't be getting more wild sex?

Before becoming a mom, she was my slvt. Many men give control because there is a baby in the house and they start to lose respect. I don't care if she changed her identity from slvt to mom, I married a slvt, I won't be accepting anything else.


Men are to blame, they give their balls away to their women, because now she's the virgin marry who gave me a kid. "Oh you don't feel to fvck, ok honey" Fvck that, if I'm not getting what I want, I leave.
Some of the freakiest sex I have ever had has been with Moms while their kids were sleeping in the next room
 

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So if I love having wild sex, and the moment she becomes a mom I have to accept that I won't be getting more wild sex?

Before becoming a mom, she was my slvt. Many men give control because there is a baby in the house and they start to lose respect. I don't care if she changed her identity from slvt to mom, I married a slvt, I won't be accepting anything else.


Men are to blame, they give their balls away to their women, because now she's the virgin marry who gave me a kid. "Oh you don't feel to fvck, ok honey" Fvck that, if I'm not getting what I want, I leave.
If you get married you have no recourse. Choose wisely.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Some of the freakiest sex I have ever had has been with Moms while their kids were sleeping in the next room
This is correct. I went mode one on a single mom the other day. First time I’ve ever pursued a single mom. We were dancing dirty at a bar and she wouldn’t come home. I’m like wtf. Does not compute. Told me it was refreshing I wasn’t a douchbag. I knew then and there we had a serious problem

I start going all Alan Roger Currie on her (ARC) @We_ArE_VeNOM She’s 1.5 years into the divorce. Nothing since the ex. kids around my age (young)

I tell her I am going to stuff her face sideways on a pillow and fbck her like an animal. It was like the lights turned on. She was like omg I haven’t been dvcked in so long. I was like say that again I didn’t hear you (anchoring). I’m like you want to suck it? Big puppy eyes yes.

It’s between the ears folks it’s not anything else.
 

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This is correct. I went mode one on a single mom the other day. First time I’ve ever pursued a single mom. We were dancing dirty at a bar and she wouldn’t come home. I’m like wtf. Does not compute. Told me it was refreshing I wasn’t a douchbag. I knew then and there we had a serious problem

I start going all Alan Roger Currie on her (ARC) @We_ArE_VeNOM She’s 1.5 years into the divorce. Nothing since the ex. kids around my age (young)

I tell her I am going to stuff her face sideways on a pillow and fbck her like an animal. It was like the lights turned on. She was like omg I haven’t been dvcked in so long. I was like say that again I didn’t hear you (anchoring). I’m like you want to suck it? Big puppy eyes yes.

It’s between the ears folks it’s not anything else.
It's like the fact she could possibly get caught and have her kids knocking on the door and asking her why she was screaming so loud and making weird noises turns her on even more...
 

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Do you guys notice these patterns in long term relationships around you? People constantly shifting?
Yeah, this happens in ALL aspects of life, not just marriage. Ex. From '16-today, several million folks who once SEEMED personable and fun-loving have either Gone Woke or Taken The Red Pill, and now rejoice in being offended by every f-cking thing

Life is constantly in flux, and the things and people we "know" are, often enough, a wee bit more complex than we believed them to be
 
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