I saw this post on LP and some of the responses to her thread both from the male and female camp were hilarious. Some women really like to have their cake and eat it. The thread is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/458167-why-won-t-he-pay
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
A woman complains that her date refuses to pay for her meal or drinks
- Thread starter Mr Nigm@
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tictac
Banned
"A woman complains" followed by anything is not news.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Argument #1: She kind of does have a point. I mean, they've been out on a lot of dates. I think we've all had that cheap ass friend who never pays for anything when out and it's annoying as fück. Not to mention, she treated on one date, now it would be his turn. It's polite, shows you're not a bum, and she's perhaps heading towards girlfriend status.
Argument #2: If these bıtches wanna be like men (feminists), this is what is looks like. You pay your own way, I don't hold the door for you, and I expect you to shut up and perform, not talk. More puddin, and more proof, that feminism is a limited, pick-and-choose concept that will confuse society.
Argument #2: If these bıtches wanna be like men (feminists), this is what is looks like. You pay your own way, I don't hold the door for you, and I expect you to shut up and perform, not talk. More puddin, and more proof, that feminism is a limited, pick-and-choose concept that will confuse society.