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If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

A woman’s long term value to you is her behavior.

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This is more for ongoing interludes and green youngins , if you're doing ltr’s, minis, building a harem, or just have a fwb situation, this is more tailored for you.

A woman should be nice and she should behave. Feel free to establish this early on, once your value to her has been established. Being direct and assertive, drawing lines early, will prevent future out of sorts. Like a dog, you must train a woman not to pee on the carpet when you first get her. Wait until she's already started and you'll be scrubbing out stink out of the floors until the little b1tch goes back to the pound.

Guys tend to get a little caught up and simpy when they get a hot one. Too tolerant of bad behavior, particularly if she's good in the sack. But looks really have no value. Her looks won't improve your quality of life unless you can enjoy them in peace. So as tempting as it may be to let her get away with a little of this or a little of that, slam the brakes on her ass. Believe it or not, it will make her more infatuated for you.

Women want a man with inherent value, but won't value him if he doesn't value himself. If she doesn't think he's willing to walk away the second she acts a fool. The door is a powerful weapon and underrated as a behavioral correction mechanism. I've kicked a few girls out, and after that they were more conciliatory.
You never really need to yell let alone hit a woman to control her.
Being able to walk away without any arguments or explanations is the only thing that will put a woman in her place.

The second she steps out of line, correct her. If she resists, door. She'll typically try to resist more, but the conversation is already over. Door.

A woman must always feel that she needs to earn the right to be in your presence. If you're emotional about her then she can feel your neediness. Dogs and bees can smell fear. Women can smell weakness. Show emotion and give her warmth only when she behaves. When she does not, respond with surgical coldness.
Be calm, composed, emotionless. Condense your lexicon of words.
The hammer drops without passion or prejudice, but sure as the Devil's forked tongue, it does drop.

it does not matter if she's right. She may well have a legitimate gripe. Maybe she caught you in a lie or you didn't do something promised. Doesn't matter. If she doesn't address it with you in the most respectful approach, door. Don’t get lost in the “who’s, what’s and when’s”
She needs to leave the instant she doesn't she doesn't show full respect for your manhood or shows the slightest hint of crazy.

And your ripple effect here is to not give a fvck. She's not "the one". None of them are. "Yeah but G, what if she doesn't call?" She will. You've shown resilience and woman love that. Not physical strength, which is overrated, but mental toughness which is a rare trait that all women, on some level, crave. Happy women are submissive by nature. You show me a miserable woman and I'll show you a woman trying to run sh1t. When they let go, and let you, you'll see the happiness come over them. It makes them feel in safe haven with you, and the instinct to seek security is found in all female social mammals.

"Yeah, but what if she really doesn't call, G?" Then unsubscribe her. Fvck her.
Thousands of them are within 25 miles of where you live, and a good portion of them will fit your looks preference and could be very dateable when it comes down to it. No one chick is going to break the bank

If you a factor from this board you know the world is full of females that are more hotter, feminine and nicer than her. Let someone else put up with her bs. You're a man and you plain ol’ fashioned don't have to take that sh1t off her or anyone else. If a woman doesn't IMPROVE your quality of life then she is worthless to you. And looks alone do nothing for your peace of mind.
 
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Hi Giovanni,
Please tell me of the Women you are currently hanging out of?I am curious what type of Women would accept such a servile situation.
 

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Hi Money and Muscle,
I tend to take what I read with a grain of salt...Personal experience has unique power and authenticity....My early life was spent in a Migrant Hostel,with about 60 Families from all over,living cheek by jowel,there was no TV those Days...With wafer thin fibrous cement walls separating us,it was a community that thrived on gossip....This was the post War generation that one might think had Women with more traditional values than our liberated Ladies today,I cannot recall any of these Ladies being Hard Wired as You and Giovanni suggest.
 

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Hi Money and Muscle,
Sorry I do actually recall an incident of servility,when we moved out of the Hostel I described we lived in a Street where on a weekly basis,before most Folk had Cars,There lived an Ex Ghurka presumably British Guy who had,I guess,brought a local Ghurkali Lady home as his wife....Saturday mornings,regular as clockwork having done their weekly shopping,down the Street would come, him,his wife and five kids in descending order of height,all in line and each carrying a bag of groceries,him in the lead and all shuffling along behind.
 
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Hi Giovanni,
Please tell me of the Women you are currently hanging out of?I am curious what type of Women would accept such a servile situation.
Here in northern Mexico there is still a handful of young women raised in traditional patriarchy households with fathers involved in their life till they get married. They will literally get tacked on with curfews the first couple of times you take her out on a date. My cousin is going out with a very cute 19 year old feminine chick and he had to bring her back by 9pm the first 6 months they started seeing each other. Now since he knows the family and is in good standing, he gets more leeway on weekends. My cousin and I share a lot of values and stride regarding the current dating culture. He is a gamed rooster and he really scored by getting this nice young family chick as a girlfriend. She is not “Americanized”. Just by that you are pulling ahead of the pack. She has no guy friends and is very loyal to him, despite his rugged behavior at times.
 
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Here in northern Mexico there is still a handful of young women raised in traditional patriarchy households with fathers involved in their life till they get married. They will literally get tacked on with curfews the first couple of times you take her out on a date. My cousin is going out with a very cute 19 year old feminine chick and he had to bring her back by 9pm the first 6 months they started seeing each other. Now since he knows the family and is in good standing, he gets more leeway on weekends. My cousin and I share a lot of values and stride regarding the current dating culture. He is a gamed rooster and he really scored by getting this nice young family chick as a girlfriend. She is not “Americanized”. Just by that you are pulling ahead of the pack. She has no guy friends and is very loyal to him, despite his rugged behavior at times.
I imagine it's even better the further you get away from TJ. American dudes, these women aren't very far from the border either.

@Giovanni SouthSide As an aside, whatever you do in life man, do not move to Italy for any reason. And when you'operate in Cali, learn to avoid Italianas. They look latina and claim to be traditional, but they are anything but compliant.
 
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I imagine it's even better the further you get away from TJ. American dudes, these women aren't very far from the border either.

@Giovanni SouthSide As an aside, whatever you do in life man, do not move to Italy for any reason. And when you'operate in Cali, learn to avoid Italianas. They look latina and claim to be traditional, but they are anything but compliant.
the further south the better chances she still has traditional values in the bloodline. “Americanism vanity and feminism ” has sweeped TJ and alot of chicks have succumbed to the phenomenon as well since it’s a borderline city. Life in the border is fast paced with options. Unless you're screening for nothing but very conservative girls then you're almost certainly going to have to train your flighty city girl to some degree.

never really came across any females from “the boot”.
Given that 411, now I really want one that way I can see what they really all about. Remember, the door can always be a behavioral correction mechanism.
 
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