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A wierd Situation

ssj245

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Well me and my friends almost got into a fight with these stupid black kids, they where looking for some trouble, and saying things they shouldnt be. Like "Hey look at them, whose that" "Whats up, up with them" "who you be homie" Stupid stuff like that, and saying sneer remarks.

It really pissed us off, me and my friends, and all these fu*kers are really big, so anyway we are close to our car and we get inside our car.

We jump in quick becuase they kind of where following us. So my friend, just gets so mad at stupid ignorant people, he turns the car on and floors it inside the parking lot and flies over the speed bump at 45 mph. The kids where still crossing and we drove staright at them, not trying to hit them but scare them. I rolled my window down and gave them the finger and said the F word like 10 times and then we screeched off. But we caught a light, a red light. So we are waiting and we see on of the guys running toward our car, and he punches the window and says "Yo yo yo, wanna start something" We run the light and speed off.

I was scared as hell, and I feel like a realy pus**y bcuz my friend was so upset he wanted to go and bash these idiots with the club, the streeing wheel club. And he was so upset and mad. I was scared as hell, my heart was pounding a million times a second.

I know people who would have reacted completly diffrent in such a sitatuion, they would have just beat those kids right there when they said those things to us.

I mean I was scared, I will admit.

How do I get it out of me?
Obviously the guy who ran up to our car wasnt scared, how do I get to be like that or are you just born that way?

Maybe joining the marines or army can make you a warrior, I felt like my manhood was insulted.
 

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tobby

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Look, I'm not trying to lecture you but things happen in life that you don't really plan for. For those kids saying things to you, it was totally inappropiate and it shouldn't have happened. However, you don't really have to get into race when you're describing them. Although your statement puts a clearer picture in the reader's mind, it's not fair making such an ignorant statement like that. There are also many times when stupid "white kids" do things to others than aren't that great either.

Now in regards to your situation, you don't appear weak for verbally saying stuff back to them (which u did, so I think you're fine), but you have to use some wisdom when you fight (pick your battles). You're scared because you know you're physically unmatched to fight with them and you also don't know everything about them. (They could/not be armed etc.) So don't feel bad for what you did, just handle each situation as it comes and don't be afraid to just verbally stand up for yourself and not physically.
 

cashc0w

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things will get better after you graduate from high school
 
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