"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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a weird succes story

improvingdonjuan

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hey my fellow djs i havent visited the site for a while but i want to tell you my success story. im a 16 year old junior good looking (or so my mom says
) 5'3. so basicly last year i began to be a dj i started trying all this stuff talk to girls and all.

this year though my drive, my passion to succeed as a dj is kinda low on this point of my life i mean i gotta be honest here my confidence is way better than before i have postive self talk and i feel that i can do anythig i want if i put my mind to it.

i am able to talk to any girl at any time unless she is with her friends (i got to work on that) i gotten so many numbers that i dont know who is who and where they are at.so you must be thinking ok this guy is good.

i havent gone on dates yet thought cause i have no car and i need to get a job to get money but pretty much i think i can get any chicks number no problem.

the only thing that i need help on is how to get that drive,that passion, that dedication to go out and talk to become a super succesful dj (i know i can be because i have done it) but how can i get the confidence on me that happines in my self?

do you get what im saying? i dont need cofidence to talk to them because its easy and asking for dates is too. but how can i love my self (self steem) to be strong,not shaken by anything and sure of my self, happy with me and life no matter what?

your opinions will be apreciated

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CONFIDENCE AND HUMOR ARE THE KEY TO HER HEART

be confident,homorous,and charming and you will be succesful in life because people think of you as highly as you think of yourself
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aiken_Drum

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Practice more.

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"I can imagine a perfect world, a world without hate, a world without war. Then I can imagine us attacking that world
because they'd never expect it." --Jack Handey's "Deep Thoughts"
 
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