"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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a way to relive our youth again?

picard

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Is there a way for guys like us to join some kind of fraternity like the movie old school? It seemed like fun. I never had any kind of fun in university. I studied like a dog. Time passes by so quickly.

I just want to relive my youth again. party, party just like the movie animal house. :woo: :woo: :D My life is getting too mudane , boring !!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That'd be nice. I just want to attract a hot young girl...like this one I've been after. Damn oneitis and all this DJ knowledge couldn't prevent it.
 

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Hey Picard, people want what they don't have. I was in a frat and eventually quit because they are mostly self-centered *******s. Frats are nothing special, imo, just people who need some letters on their chest to give them a self-identity.

Meet some younger women. You will find some wild ones.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Hey Picard, people want what they don't have. I was in a frat and eventually quit because they are mostly self-centered *******s. Frats are nothing special, imo, just people who need some letters on their chest to give them a self-identity.

Meet some younger women. You will find some wild ones.
thanks for the advice bible_belt.
 

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You know what's funny? I finished college last year at 36 after 4 years of parttime classes at University of Nevada, Reno. About my second year in I had a kid of about 20 hit me up to join his Frat during rush week! Heheh,...I actually look about mid to late 20's because I take really good care of myself, so I thought that was the reason he'd mistaken me for younger, but the guy was like, "no man, you know about chicks and stuff." Heh,..I'd have done it too were I single.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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picard - you don't need a frat. you can find the same atmosphere in a lot of bars.

but honestly, do you really like that stuff? you don't sound like a frat boy. you're not going to reinvent your personality. think of what *you* think is fun, and go do it. try some outdoor stuff, esp. get your adrenaline going and life gets exciting again
 

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I am not frat boy nor party animal. I just want to go dancing with nice girl all night. That's my way of being a party animal.

I jsut haven't met nice girl. Since reading DJ bible, I will apply the techniques tomorrow. I have a party with lots of chicks. There will be about 500 people coming to party. I will be hunting for eligible chicks in age 28-35.
 
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