Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a way to relive our youth again?

picard

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Is there a way for guys like us to join some kind of fraternity like the movie old school? It seemed like fun. I never had any kind of fun in university. I studied like a dog. Time passes by so quickly.

I just want to relive my youth again. party, party just like the movie animal house. :woo: :woo: :D My life is getting too mudane , boring !!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That'd be nice. I just want to attract a hot young girl...like this one I've been after. Damn oneitis and all this DJ knowledge couldn't prevent it.
 

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Hey Picard, people want what they don't have. I was in a frat and eventually quit because they are mostly self-centered *******s. Frats are nothing special, imo, just people who need some letters on their chest to give them a self-identity.

Meet some younger women. You will find some wild ones.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Hey Picard, people want what they don't have. I was in a frat and eventually quit because they are mostly self-centered *******s. Frats are nothing special, imo, just people who need some letters on their chest to give them a self-identity.

Meet some younger women. You will find some wild ones.
thanks for the advice bible_belt.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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You know what's funny? I finished college last year at 36 after 4 years of parttime classes at University of Nevada, Reno. About my second year in I had a kid of about 20 hit me up to join his Frat during rush week! Heheh,...I actually look about mid to late 20's because I take really good care of myself, so I thought that was the reason he'd mistaken me for younger, but the guy was like, "no man, you know about chicks and stuff." Heh,..I'd have done it too were I single.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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picard - you don't need a frat. you can find the same atmosphere in a lot of bars.

but honestly, do you really like that stuff? you don't sound like a frat boy. you're not going to reinvent your personality. think of what *you* think is fun, and go do it. try some outdoor stuff, esp. get your adrenaline going and life gets exciting again
 

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I am not frat boy nor party animal. I just want to go dancing with nice girl all night. That's my way of being a party animal.

I jsut haven't met nice girl. Since reading DJ bible, I will apply the techniques tomorrow. I have a party with lots of chicks. There will be about 500 people coming to party. I will be hunting for eligible chicks in age 28-35.
 
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