A way to rate a woman's interest.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Master Don Juan

May 5, 2005

The bottom line is that if a girl is interested, she will ALWAYS want to look her best around you if she can help it. I'm sure you can say the same for yourself of a girl you like. Before seeing her, make sure the wind tunnel tested hair-do is in order but putting one curl out of place, clothes all ironed, belt .. the shoes .. you name it.

A woman around a guy she really likes feels sexy and motivated. She will dress this way too.

For good concise dating and relationship advice
Ask Sagan the Artificial Intelligence Dating Consultant (pops up in separate browser window)

These are just some of the sample questions you can ask. You can also talk in free-form.

How do i flirt? Should i buy her a drink? How do i advance things physically?
How do i ask her out? Do i approach or not? What are some signs of interest?
Should i compliment her? How do i handle rejection? What about party girls?
Tell me about the friends zone. Should i tell her how i feel? What is good body language?
I'm in a slump. Should i be ****y and funny? What is the difference between neediness and clinglyness.
Should i be persistant? How do i be a mystery? Where do i meet girls?
She is long distance. Should i let her do most of the talking? Is she playing hard to get?
She says one thing but does another. How do i keep friends with benefits?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.