A Virgin's realization

[stonetowers]

I was out dancing the other not and had not 1 not 2 but 3 girls on me at once and it felt fantastic.

But it seemed something else was missing.Oh yeah, my erection.I had soft ass and titties all up on me but did not get hard.Now why was that?

I know,because we weren't having sex.I'm starting to believe that no matter how hot a girl is,if we're not going to be getting into anything more than dancing there's no point.

If that's the case I don't see how or why people go to strip clubs and pay for ass that they can't tap.

Somebody fill me in on that

 

[radiodude]

You're realizing the truth regarding sexual relations. Many times a guy will post here talking about how he went soft even during an encounter and can't figure out why.

The truth is that you as a man react to your stimuli just like a woman does. If a situation isn't doing it for you your body will let you know. Don't second guess yourself. For many guys, unless the sensations and atmosphere match the action, there is no drive within the body to react.

To me, strip clubs are amusing and fun and the scenery is pretty nice. But I usually only got moderately hard there at best.

Simple stuff, yet so overlooked.

 

[BwanaKuu]

girls like to dance

as in, a night spent getting trashed and dancing a lot is a ****load of fun to them

most guys won't feel the same (though I do kind of like dancing) about the whole thing

i don't get strip clubs either tbh, why would I pay to get blueballed all night long?

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I have been in 3 strip clubs and have never gotten an erection in any of them. The atmosphere just doesn't do it for me.