"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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a very important part of conversation

drixsa

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A big thing that has really helped me out is having a warm-up conversation

this can be anyone, but works best with a woman who is atleast somewhat attractive

get into a decently long conversation with her. Just shoot the sht or whatever your thing is

after you have ended the convo you feel like a million bucks and that you are unstoppable

then (which i have commonly used is) just saying hello to every person or people that pass you by.

best way to start future convo's out
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Starman

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this works just as well with your buddies and men too

the point is to CONVERSE..As much as you can!

it will get you warmed up to talk to anybody..but if you are the shy quiet type..that goes all day without saying one word to anyone..your warm ups are rusty

its kind of like warming up before working out..
 
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