"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A very good social experiment.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheException

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I mean...its easily predictable of why the girl gets more "yes's" than the guy.

Guys = Overt Sexual Communicators

Women = Covert Sexual Communicators

This is why when your trying to hookup with a girl is imperative to never SAY sexual things until your actually doing the deed....you show her through physical escalation. Its classic Anti-Slut Defense 101. No mystery here...
 

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Also...

Hot chick asking for sex = guy thinks "hmm she's crazy. perfect for a ONS!"

Guy asking for sex = girls thinks "creepy pervert!"

Like you said - overt vs covert. Aren't there some street pickup videos where there are guys bringing girls home within a few minutes? They don't specifically say let's go have sex, they just imply it. A guy I used to work with picked up a chick at a minimart on the way home from work. He didn't mention anything about having sex. Just about his fishtank. He said something like "oh yeah you should see my tank. why don't you come by now?" She did and he banged her.
 

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Hahaha good sh1t dude this gave me quite a few laughs
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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