"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A very attractive woman from a dating app but...

Sebastian0001

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I matched with a very attractive woman on a dating app called Coffee Meets Bagel. We exchanged messages and tried to set up a time to get coffee. The first time we set up a time she had to cancel because of a late work presentation that came up. Then, I was out of town for a week when she suggested a couple of times so I couldn't meet. Finally, I returned from my trip and suggested some times and now she said she is seeing some guy. Should I just let this go now? Add her on Facebook? Any ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinnyguy

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Consider yourself lucky you missed out on this chick. She is likely a branch swinger and would have fvcked you up.

How much rapport did you build?
 
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