"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a VAST improvement...

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This is a massive improvement, this forum is superior in every way. UBB is sh!t, it was good in 99' but now it's horrible.

VBB is currently top of the line, and being used by everyone. Nice update, I couldn't be happier.

I feel much better about the forum in general, much cleaner, fresher.

Well done guys, I've been wanting this for awhile.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Additionally, the Don Juan bible needs to be updated as all the link's dont work.

In a few months, though, I think everything will be in full working condition.
 
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allan: Excellent Improvement on the Forum

Allan and company,

Great Job at improving the bullitin board; it looks spectacular and the search feature and member profiles are amazing.

Keep up the good work and happy holidays.

Cesare Cardinali
 
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