"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A typical SoSuave thread
- Thread starter Epicurus
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No, YOU have to continuously hump their leg to even get a pulse.
This is incredible insight - deesade is claiming that it's so rare for women to initiate that he assumes only women who are PAID initiate! He's never had a girl text "Good morning"??
And if paying girls kept them around, and I was paying, how would I have lost my last girl?? How could the exact same No Contact and Get Your Ex Back strategies have worked on her?
I kept statistics for months that demonstrated exactly what Coach Corey Wayne says ""At this point, she should be doing 70%-80% of the calling and initiating contact. Therefore, you should back off enough so that the ratio gets to the percentages it should be." All this time I never knew Corey Wayne dated only prostitutes!