"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No, YOU have to continuously hump their leg to even get a pulse.
This is incredible insight - deesade is claiming that it's so rare for women to initiate that he assumes only women who are PAID initiate! He's never had a girl text "Good morning"??
And if paying girls kept them around, and I was paying, how would I have lost my last girl?? How could the exact same No Contact and Get Your Ex Back strategies have worked on her?
I kept statistics for months that demonstrated exactly what Coach Corey Wayne says ""At this point, she should be doing 70%-80% of the calling and initiating contact. Therefore, you should back off enough so that the ratio gets to the percentages it should be." All this time I never knew Corey Wayne dated only prostitutes!