"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A truly inspirational book

Wiesman44

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Read "how to win friends and influence people"

By far the most inspiring book I've ever read. I've heard this book mentioned a few times months and months ago, but I just want to reiterate it.


If you want people to like you, read this book. This book talks about how to be a better person, how to use genuine techniques to make friends. This all relates to getting girls.

I havent finished reading this book yet, but I get a feeling unlike any other when I read it. I cant describe it. I feel like I'm bettering myself every time I pick the book up.

And here's the kicker, I'm not just doing it to meet girls. I truly want to become a more sociable person. I urge you guys to pick this up. I promise it will be an inspiration to all of you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I read this book 2 years ago, and i still read it today. The advice it contains is invaluable.

I use alot,if not all, of the advice in this book in my day to day dealing with people. Both in business(god, i would suck hadn't i read this book), and in dealing with girls.

I was a complete social noob when i first picked up this book 2 years ago though.
 
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