"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A True Don Juan...........

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BrotherAP

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this video shows up so often... I want a sequel or something. Like "The aftermath: dripping with unenthusiasm, a.k.a. VD"
 

HeartlessBtch

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I love Asian boyz!..i need to show my bf this, he keep scomplaining how they always degrade asians... :D
 

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Damn, look at all those gorgeous hot b1tches he's f--cking. Too bad those hos are are just for the ride and nothing really LTR. He doesn't look masculine and he's geeky looking but he knows his sh!t.
 

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yeah, this has been posted many times before.

even though i'll definitely give that guy props...i wouldn't say he's a true don juan...he's more like a true pick-up artist

there's a big difference between a pick-up artist and a don juan...in that a pick-up artist's sole purpose is to bang chicks...he'll use canned material, opening structures or whatever...a don juan is coveted by women, and women come to him because he has his sh!t together

the video does kick ass though
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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