"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A True DJ

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Hello fellow DJs. What's up?

Are you worried, and struggling to improve your DJ techniques to "mack" girls?

What you need to do: Read the DJ Bible, and IMPLEMENT it. Avoid the forums for a while until you have a SPECIFIC question. Hitting on girls and asking for numbers is your RESPONSIBLITY. You can do it. No one will do it for you.

You are the BEST person to ask for advice. Why? Because you know the situation better then I do; or any other member.

Everyone is gifted with this "skill" of a DJ. We are all DJs.

But, Attorney, what seperates us from everyone else? We try to improve, we TAKE ACTION. We approach! We conquer our fears!

And so,

Everyone has the DJ in them. "JUst Do it" Don't rely on forum members, but yourself. Don't doubt yourself.

So take a challenge. GET OFF THE FORUMS for a month, and do YOUR thing.

Only then can you release the DJ inside of you...



The DEFINATION OF DJ:

What makes a DJ a DJ...

Simple. A DJ is a well-rounded person who lives by three main principals: Responsiblity, Confidence, Suave.

CONFIDENCE:

You learn from your experiences. These forums will not count to your experience. If you have 9999 posts, it does not make you a DJ. An ultimate god. Do not look up to those people. You must go out! Implement your skill and learn from success and failures, alike.

Go to the gym.
Search "Confidence" for more information -- I do not want to reiterate the overused

RESPONSIBLITY:

I'm not your mother. You know what MUST be done. Do it.

SUAVE:

Respect girls.

(look up the word "suave")

NO ONE LIKES AN A-S-S-H-O-L-E.


Be a DJ. Go out!

DO NOT MACK YOUR KEYBOARD...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jerky Boi

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Very nice principles to live by. A lot of people spend more time here than they do in the field. Keep it up.
 

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People on this board get way too caught up tryin to become this mythical DJ bs. What they don't realize is that it's all about personal STYLE.
 

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Exactly. Everyone is unique. And by going out into the "field," one discovers his or her individuality. This individuality must be implemented into the "field."

Especially when it comes down to advice. I know myself better then anyone. And you too, know YOURSELF better then your friend. So why ask your friend for help when the answer is in YOU.

The key is confidence. With confidence you DO the right thing. Haven't you noticed?

On those good days your ****y, funny, and do things in accordance to your opinion. You become the TRUTH. You don't doubt yourself.

And when you lack doubt you create an illusion of truth. It becomes right. So if you say something you deem stupid to a girl. Then she will assume so, too.

If you are 100% confident in your actions, so will everyone else.

Everyone needs to learn, on their own. To discover what is RIGHT, for that UNIQUE person. We all need to learn.

The best way to learn is.... Practice, Practice, and PRACTICE. The best way to gain confidence is Practice, Practice, and MORE PRACTICE.

So go out there!
 
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