"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A tought about one-itis

Trance

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Im convinced i found out the reason for one-itis. I think you get the one-itis syndrome when the girl is the one you had the best continuous sex you ever had.

If you can replace her fast and have better continuous sex you wont ever get one-itis.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's obvious isnt it? If she was your girlfriend you liked her -_- But deep inside you, that's not the reason you get one-itis from my point of view. During your lifetime experience you have a lot of girlfriends, and dont get one-itis with everyone of them, only the ones that match the reason i posted.
 

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Most of my one-itis-oids involved no sex whatsoever except in my imagination. That counts, right?
 

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Red is right.

ALL of my one-itis's have been with women I've never had sex with. It's the "you want what you can't have" syndrome.

Sex is sex. There's always better sex out there, just waiting for you...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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