"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HELP!!

I am not a newb. Ive been reading tips from the forum and the main sight for a while. Two thing that I think everyone here would agree with:

1. A girl makes puts u into one of 2 categories (datable or nondatable) within min.s or even of meeting her sec.s
2. The principle of 'NEXT'ing

Now... my situation:

I was homeschooled until through 8th grade and now i am a 9th grader high schooler. At the beginning of the year I had a social IQ of 0 but now its getting better. The girls, however, put me in the non-datable category at the beginning of the year, and my school is tiny (class size = about 70-75). I cant use NEXTing cause my school is so small and ALL the girls have put me in the nondatable category for the same reason. I cant drive and cant go anywhere else to meet girls. Is my situation hopless? What should i do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls don't put you in a category - you put yourself there. Making yourself a better person is the only way to change things.
 
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