"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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a tips about being an alpha male

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Personally, I don't have time to worry about being alpha etc. I just get on with doing my thing, I don't waste my time with this kinda sh!t. I just do things because I enjoy them or because I get some kind of benefit from it, even if it's doing something for someone else I'll still do it cos I enjoy the feelings of well being it gives me. But I guess I'm pretty selfish and ego centric like that.
 
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seethehoop said:
Personally, I don't have time to worry about being alpha etc. I just get on with doing my thing, I don't waste my time with this kinda sh!t. I just do things because I enjoy them or because I get some kind of benefit from it, even if it's doing something for someone else I'll still do it cos I enjoy the feelings of well being it gives me. But I guess I'm pretty selfish and ego centric like that.
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That's exactly what being alpha is. I dont find your POV ego centric, you are honest and say you like helping people because you enjoy the feelings you get.

I agree that too many people are focused on becoming a macho man while not truly understanding what an alpha male is. I think it is important for people to know the traits of an alpha male, however.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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