"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A tip that I have always heard, but never tried....until today!

The Great One

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Guys. I have one piece of advice for you. TAKE A DANCING CLASS!

I signed up for a ballroom dancing class today, and there are so many opportunities and so little time. I walked in and there were about 30 women and 6 guys, including myself. :crazy:

Getting numbers is cake. The kino is already done for you with the dancing part, and it is a great opportunity to joke with the girls, and flirt with them.

The guy is in control for the dances, you can step on their toes, make them mess up, blame them when you mess up, laugh at them, laugh at yourself......I can go on and on about how easy it is.

Bottom line, go out there and do this. I promise you won't be disappointed. This is one class that I know I will be going to every week ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where are you located?

I took a swing dancing class, and there were more men than women, and a good portion of those women were there with their boyfriends or husbands. :rolleyes:
 

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Only thing around here would be square dancing... uggghh...Not a country fan. Of course, if the female to male ratio was 5:1, that might be a different story. ;)
 

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"The Great One"...Oh no, you've usurped my title for Pook!

But yes, I agree, swing dancing is pretty much the ultimate date as well as a good pick-up arena. If you're setting up a swing dance date, the only trouble is that it's sometimes hard to schedule.

On top of that, you can carry certain moves that you learn from swing dancing over to the club scene.
 

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I tried salsa which was ok but then I showed up one friday class at 9 pm (it was an optional class, just for practice) and there was like 14 guys and 3 girls there so I quit. I wasn't going to fight 13 guys to sleep with one of the three girls there.

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I still think [Obsidian] is Pook. Joined June 2006, same time Pook's blog started, references Pook all the time, has the exact same philosophies toward women, is of about the same intelligence...
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Are you the same guy? Wondering why you keep on posting this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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it's in my signature lol

Usually in dance classes, I'll find an excess of girls at the beginning, and then the ratio will eventually move roughly toward a 50-50 equilibrium. This is for two reasons:
1. Girls have trouble keeping commitments
2. Girls like having guys to dance with (Altho girls can dance with each other if worse comes to worse; so this isn't a huge concern)

But you shouldn't bail on something just because it sucks one time. And you probably shouldn't be attending "classes" on Friday nights, either. :rolleyes:
 

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You can do this with things like yoga too, or pilates, or anything in that area. I would walk to the gym on campus and when I passed the rooms where yoga and pilates was done during the day, there were 30 or so women in there. How many guys? Oh who knows, prob none. Now some campuses only have female classes, but these usually aren't. The ones that are, are weight training cause they dont want meat heads in there.

Now most guys think... GAY! when taking a class like yoga or pilates. If you need a credit hour to fill, just want to relax and be surrounded by 30 women, GO FOR IT.

Another tip is to hang around your dental hygiene building on campus or health professions building. Usually there are TONS of women (and good looking ones) in the dental hygiene programs.

Sometimes it takes thinking out of the box in ways most guys dont.

Job wise... Go to a Michaels hobby store, or one like that near you. Walk in, and there are usually MANY girls working there. I've seen it myself. Now dudes might go... That's gay you work at a crafts store. Nothing gay about being one of only 2 or 3 guys with 10+ women. :up: In these cases your chatting it up with MANY more women, and its like the homepage of mere exposure.

1 guy and 30 women... Choose your target.

I work with both male and female, and prob more males, so the hardest thing is when 5 other dudes want to introduce themselves to the same woman.

If you dont have to compete with many guys, you've got it made. When downtime happens at a crafts store, your almost always chatting it up with a woman, and same with a pilates or yoga class. You get there 10min before class starts, and you dont have to worry about guys.
 
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