"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mackdaddy27

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Listen very carefully,

NO matter how hot the girl is , and you want her so bad... STOP ..WHat you do next, is going to live you away:

NO matter how hot you think she is..

take a step back...and remember this:

Rule Number 1 # for becoming a DJ:

you dont change your schedule
u dont change what you do
u do what you u want
she fits into your schedule , or shes out
you dont bend for no body
u dont shave, u dont change your ordinary routine,
you dont think about her. u just do

WHY?


BY Acting like one, YOU BECOME ONE

it reaffirms to youself WHO you are
that your time is more valuable
that your the alpha
, Tell me whats more effective, saying your the alpha 100 times or
actually living like one ?

YOU must remember, that you are telling yourself something too..
in order to become the alpha
u must first feel it inside, when you feed it to yourself
this is how you feel yourself that your time is more important
you dont ****en change your schedule so you can accomdate someone
you dont ****en change yourself
you dont ****en change your life, your looks

u dont shave, u dont change your ordinary routine

what happens if the bytch suddenly decides shes doesn't drop u ,
waisted a a fuccken week , planning, dreaming and crying over some stupid bytch?

u r time more important than any pvssy or anything, act like it, do like it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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