"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GloriouslyInsane

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About a year ago i was introduced to the whole Dj etc scene(first by other sites,DD newsletters and finaly half a year ago to this site).I as many of you was looking on "why can't i get girls even though im nicer/more handsome/intelligent than the guys i saw with HB's all my life".So i read,and i read until my eyes were red (it rhymes heh).Anyway i was sceptical at first then i tried c+f,neg and teasing (verbal and b/l stuff).I was amazed at the results,i jawdropped myself frequently.Then i moved on to the harder (and more important stuff) like kino,i must admit i was pretty scared the first time i tried to use some non-natural, "sexual" kino,like putting my arm around a girl i've known for 20mins.So one night i grabbed my balls and did it..she didnt shrug my arm off and slap me...she didn't kick me in the balls.As i read here ... F.E.A.R. , false evidence appearing real.So came the hair stroking,the kiss,the sniffing etc until i did the home run.Everytime i tried to get out of my comfort zone i was scared ****less the first time,then i did it again and again until it became my new comfort zone.

What im trying to say here is.Just because you can attract girls verbally and through b/l assume you are the **** and you can get any girl you want.So you cold approach,you have a ****load of #'s..now what?.Thus the questions of the manner "I've c+f'ed blah blah..she likes me..blah blah now what?".You know what you have to do next.Don't just "play" verbally and expect girls to spread their legs and scream "fvck me NOW!".

Expand,learn and EXPAND.Try to go from A to Z with fewer girls than A to D with alot.It is a pitfall,i was at a standstill for months,getting a girl interested,light kino and then stopped progressing until i was LJBFed.Don't do the same mistake.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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