"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A thin Line between Negging and Insults

ketostix

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Giovanni Casanova said:
How's that working out for you, champ?
DonRaul said:
I just realized this was Neg and then I felt I needed approval from you somehow. Funny how I realized that after I wrote my last comment.
Very clever. However Gio did make a good point in that a lot of guys misuse and misunderstand negs.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ketostix said:
Very clever. However Gio did make a good point in that a lot of guys misuse and misunderstand negs.
definitely a good point. Actually that was the whole reason of the thread, to better understand this poweful tool.
 
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