Egyptiandude1
Don Juan
Something that happened to me recently, I am hanging out with this girl-friend of mine and she is telling me about how she likes this one guy from her class...mind you she is the outspoken, independent brave type, and she says to me, "I really like him because i dont feel any SEXUAL TENSION around him"???
Now this got me thinking, could it be possible why we have so many noobs asking "OMG she smiled, does she like me" or "She was nice to me yesterday but was a b*tch today" or the ever popular "How long should i wait before i call" is because we are so caught up with a particular girl is that we are somewhat "obsessed" with this girl and think that if we dont achieve success that we are failures, and will never get it right.
Now I am may not be the first to say this, but experience is key, a true "DJ" does not pull girls by reading a forum and going out expecting to pull 10 numbers and sleep with two chicks a night, but rather, goes out PLANNING to fail. Now i dont mean go out and make an azz of yourself, but just go out and understand that you will NOT get every girl you like, you will NOT get things right the first time, if that were true, then people would just come here once and never return. However, if a person keeps all these things in mind, and goes out and acts NATURAL, i can't see why not they would fail. Thats not to say if you do fail, you should come back here and cry about it, but to analyze the situation, and see where you went wrong and correct it next time... EXPERIENCE IS KEY
Now back to the sexual tension theory. Girls can sniff testosterone a mile away, and if you come on too strong, you will kill any chances you have. I'm tired of reading posts saying how you should go out, talk to a girl, fail, and then go talk to another one and youll have better luck, though you might gain a bit more confidence, your odds of success will remain the same unless you figuire out where you screwed up!, for example, you talk to a girl, you fail miserably, and you lose all self confidence, you probably arent in the mood to go at it again, but if you pull that inner "DJ" from within you, you will do alot better, let me explain further...
When you fail, you feel miserable, understandable, but you also feel a sense of relief, relief that you know what happened and not wondering what COULD have happened, and you basically lose alot of your sexual aura from yourself. However when you talk to another girl, and you arent horny or adrenaline pumping through your veins, but rather are relaxed, and speak slowly and clearly, your chances of success are increased greatly, because you realize, if I survived one failure, whats one more going to do? and you just go for it and ask for the number, youll get it, because the girl doesnt feel like shes just there for your amusement or to show off to your buddies, but rather, when you are relaxed and calm, you give off a sense of confidence and natural pheromones travel better between you two if sweat isnt in the way.
Again, sexual tension during approaches is the worst thing you can do, contrary to popular belief, girls are not stupid, they know why your talking to them, you dont have to come on too strong when your point is taken by just approaching. Try it, go up to a girl and act calm and relaxed, smiling, eye contact, kino, if possible, nothing worse then obvious kino, and just be genuine, don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing just because it was recommended by someone on this board, that is something I learned the hard way, if it doesnt feel natural, don't do it, and don't listen to the BS 3-second rule, if you see a chick you like, look around her, see what shes doing, plan HOW your gonna approach, a lion doesnt succeed on a hunt by just charging on a gazelle, but rather by planning and teamwork, however, NEVER plan what you are going to say, if worse comes to worse, talk about her classes or how her weekend was or her hobbies, and then go from there.
A wing-man is not necessary at all, don't don't approach because your best buddy isnt there, if a girl is hanging with her girlfriends, just approach, introduce yourself to the whole group, remember, you are not her boyfriend yet, you might never be, but realizing this increases your chances for success. So many times I've witnesses friends approach excitedly then come back depressed, just because their TESTOSTERONE levels were through the roof, if only they would have realized that it was all that sexual tension that killed it for them and not necessarily anything else, although it had a part in making the final blow. Basically sexual tension is sort of like having sex, when you c*m the first time, you are probably early because you are to eager, but after that, you last longer because you lost most of the tension
So just remember the key points:
Lose all sexual tension
If you fail, try again, repeat process
EXPERIENCE IS KEY!!!
and that about wraps it up
...latez...~!~
Now this got me thinking, could it be possible why we have so many noobs asking "OMG she smiled, does she like me" or "She was nice to me yesterday but was a b*tch today" or the ever popular "How long should i wait before i call" is because we are so caught up with a particular girl is that we are somewhat "obsessed" with this girl and think that if we dont achieve success that we are failures, and will never get it right.
Now I am may not be the first to say this, but experience is key, a true "DJ" does not pull girls by reading a forum and going out expecting to pull 10 numbers and sleep with two chicks a night, but rather, goes out PLANNING to fail. Now i dont mean go out and make an azz of yourself, but just go out and understand that you will NOT get every girl you like, you will NOT get things right the first time, if that were true, then people would just come here once and never return. However, if a person keeps all these things in mind, and goes out and acts NATURAL, i can't see why not they would fail. Thats not to say if you do fail, you should come back here and cry about it, but to analyze the situation, and see where you went wrong and correct it next time... EXPERIENCE IS KEY
Now back to the sexual tension theory. Girls can sniff testosterone a mile away, and if you come on too strong, you will kill any chances you have. I'm tired of reading posts saying how you should go out, talk to a girl, fail, and then go talk to another one and youll have better luck, though you might gain a bit more confidence, your odds of success will remain the same unless you figuire out where you screwed up!, for example, you talk to a girl, you fail miserably, and you lose all self confidence, you probably arent in the mood to go at it again, but if you pull that inner "DJ" from within you, you will do alot better, let me explain further...
When you fail, you feel miserable, understandable, but you also feel a sense of relief, relief that you know what happened and not wondering what COULD have happened, and you basically lose alot of your sexual aura from yourself. However when you talk to another girl, and you arent horny or adrenaline pumping through your veins, but rather are relaxed, and speak slowly and clearly, your chances of success are increased greatly, because you realize, if I survived one failure, whats one more going to do? and you just go for it and ask for the number, youll get it, because the girl doesnt feel like shes just there for your amusement or to show off to your buddies, but rather, when you are relaxed and calm, you give off a sense of confidence and natural pheromones travel better between you two if sweat isnt in the way.
Again, sexual tension during approaches is the worst thing you can do, contrary to popular belief, girls are not stupid, they know why your talking to them, you dont have to come on too strong when your point is taken by just approaching. Try it, go up to a girl and act calm and relaxed, smiling, eye contact, kino, if possible, nothing worse then obvious kino, and just be genuine, don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing just because it was recommended by someone on this board, that is something I learned the hard way, if it doesnt feel natural, don't do it, and don't listen to the BS 3-second rule, if you see a chick you like, look around her, see what shes doing, plan HOW your gonna approach, a lion doesnt succeed on a hunt by just charging on a gazelle, but rather by planning and teamwork, however, NEVER plan what you are going to say, if worse comes to worse, talk about her classes or how her weekend was or her hobbies, and then go from there.
A wing-man is not necessary at all, don't don't approach because your best buddy isnt there, if a girl is hanging with her girlfriends, just approach, introduce yourself to the whole group, remember, you are not her boyfriend yet, you might never be, but realizing this increases your chances for success. So many times I've witnesses friends approach excitedly then come back depressed, just because their TESTOSTERONE levels were through the roof, if only they would have realized that it was all that sexual tension that killed it for them and not necessarily anything else, although it had a part in making the final blow. Basically sexual tension is sort of like having sex, when you c*m the first time, you are probably early because you are to eager, but after that, you last longer because you lost most of the tension
So just remember the key points:
Lose all sexual tension
If you fail, try again, repeat process
EXPERIENCE IS KEY!!!
and that about wraps it up
...latez...~!~