A theory about girls 18 and below...

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by Spacebar
(I’m 18 btw)

Basically she said that I should only date older chicks, because most girls 18 and under are mentally unstable

Now this might cause some arguement, but it makes sense, and it proves true with my experience.

When girls (good looking girls especially) are 17 and 18 and even 19 in some cases, they are just coming to terms with their newfound power over men. What do you guys think?

If you are mentally unstable at 18 you will be mentally unstable at 25 - trust me - your innate personality is determined at a much younger age which sets forth your future thinking!

Secondly, women do not have "power" over men that men do not voluntarily give them!!!

 

[Deep Dish]

When you’re in middle school, you think every elementary schooler younger than you is immature and every girl older than you as wiser. When you’re in high school, you think middle school girls are immature and college girls wise. When you’re in college, you think high school girls are immature and women with college degrees the ever wiser.

When I graduated high school my minimum age requirement was eighteen. Then twenty at twenty. At my age of twenty-five my current minimum age requirement is twenty-one. As I grow older, the disparity increases between my age and the girls. I have a friend, age of twenty-six, who says no girl under the age of twenty-three is worth it, and I have met other middle aged twenty-somethings who say no woman under the age of twenty-five is worth it.

My point is that we experience evolving standards of “maturity”. But there is a problem; emotion is by definition instability. Fun girls are characteristically unstable and emotionally stable girls inherently boring, predictable. The higher "up" of emotion you can go, the lower the low of emotion you can tumble. People who take anti-depressants experience a zapping of personality, develope a monotone persona, because you can not eliminate the lows without also eliminating the highs. Guys often dig their own hole by going for fun girls only then later to complain she is a mess—what more did they expect?

 

[00Kevin]

from my expereince some girls who are younger than 17 years old are not as jaded as the 18-24 year olds.

They will be more imature then those who are older but they will be far more trusting of men.


I dated a girl who was 17 once. she was great until she became 19. I really liked her as an innocent 17 year old girl.
At the time i was 23 and I can honestly say that she was a better girl friend then all the women my age. She would put all her hopes into me and always talk about me to her friends and family. In some ways the way she acted about me was imature but at least I could tame her.

girls who are a few years older then 18 are wild and crazy.

the best thing about dating a young girl is that you can train her as you please.

 

[Spacebar]

In today’s society I think there is large difference between a mature girl and a mentally unstable girl.
There is a lot of ****ed up people out there, or at least where I live. Half of them are on some medication, the other half need to be. Younger girls have some serious problems, especially if they are rich and good looking. They are some of the worst people to be around. They do whatever they want and get away with it. They also get whatever they want. I don’t know about you guys, but I cant stand that. I cant even stand being around one of these girls, let alone date them. I know not all 18 year old girls are like this, but at least where I live (long island), there is a lot. Not to mention that only half these girls will grow out of it. A lot of these girls aren’t immature, they are insane.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

although there might be a few grams of truth in what she said....i think shes hinting that she likes you!

put 2 + 2 together the 21 year old who says how she hates her boyfreind, tells the 18 year old he should be dating older girls.

 

[tyciol]

She would put all her hopes into me and always talk about me to her friends and family. In some ways the way she acted about me was imature but at least I could tame her. The best thing about dating a young girl is that you can train her as you please.

That gets boring, and who wants to train them? They're not dogs.

Girls who are a few years older then 18 are wild and crazy.

Yes!

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by PRMoon
Uh excuse me, there are wack job women of all ages. I knew (know) quite a few well adjusted 16-18 year old girls. I also know lots of serously derranged girls who are 18+

Take my room mates ex girlfriend, She's 21 and she's completely off her rocker. She just put a rock through our window for getting caught cheating on him!

What makes things worse is this wacko still calls him telling him how much she still loves him... After she told everyone at her work that he beats her and was thinking about pressing charges!! Beats her? I've seen HIM come home with black eyes after seeing her!!

So don't judge a book by its cover. Inter view your girls, no matter what age and see what they have to offer.

i agree all wackjobs come in different ages shapes and sizes and colors.. and they give what little sane ones out here , a very bad rep too ..

 

[S0LID]

My friend is 16 and goes with 15 year old girls. It's like at this age they don't know their power, their easy to get. When their 16 most will go to clubs, they get approached LOADS, they feel powerful. Next comes the drama, because they will fall in love and think it will last forever in this time, then they break up, sleep around, miss him, drama, drama, few relationships. Then their 19, bored of it, full time job, maybe not living at home anymore, time to grow up.

My 25 year old cousen is in a relationship with a 17 yo hb. They broke up once cause she was in love with her abusive ex b/f. He probs said "hes changed". Then he gave her two black eyes, she goes back to my cousen. He kills himself (the ex b/f). My cousen gets nervous that she'll go with someone else, she moves into his house (few months been going out), and he buys her a holiday. His master plan is to get her pregnant, but I don't think his bits are working. PLAN B is marriage. The pathetic thing is this is a true story!

 

[SageOFAllenAge]

Originally posted by S0LID

My 25 year old cousen is in a relationship with a 17 yo hb. They broke up once cause she was in love with her abusive ex b/f. He probs said "hes changed". Then he gave her two black eyes, she goes back to my cousen. He kills himself (the ex b/f). My cousen gets nervous that she'll go with someone else, she moves into his house (few months been going out), and he buys her a holiday. His master plan is to get her pregnant, but I don't think his bits are working. PLAN B is marriage. The pathetic thing is this is a true story!

I strongly dislike those sort of guys who try to bag the little hb's, 'its that catch em young & watch em grow mentality'
whereas I find it impossible to look @ any girl younger to me by 3 years romantically or sexually. Its like I hear Michael jackson playing in my head when I try to
IMO they cant find girls their own age so they bag the younger girls & mess it up for the younger guys .

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Question concerning the post. Studies show that women tend to age through puberty faster than males, and even if they aged at the same rate as males, what makes you so sure u can handle an older woman?

All Im saying is don't cut out half the field because of "what you've heard"

 

[Don_Joffe]

I think girls under the age of 18 tend to be easier to get. whilst girls older need to be juaned more intensely. BUT...girls over the age of 18 want to have sex more often.

 

[Albion4]

This has nothing to do with mental instability. It has everything to do with a lack maturity or wisdom. It's not that they're brain doesn't function properly, it's that their brain doesn't yet know how to function properly and that takes time.

Since I am a man I can relate more to maturity in men then women so I will give this example. Although women do tend to mature a bit faster it isn't that much. So, of 21 year old men what do you think the ratio of irrresponsible to responsible is? My guess is that it's around 1 to 2 in 10. But now move forward a few years, say 28. I think the ratio grows to 7 or 8 in 10. That's because that guy's spent 7 years existing on his own in an unforgiving world, and that builds experience and maturity.

You have to remember, the only social experience most 18-21 year olds have is from High School or College. And that's like the blind leading the blind, or learning trial and error from people who know nothing more about the subject then you do. I mean if you needed tutoring in math, would you pick someone who knows no more about math then yourself? You need to get out into the world and associate with people who've been there done that to start to really learn about life.

Wisdom comes from experience, and experience takes time.

-Al

 

[Trance]

If a 18 yo good looking girl learned she has power over man, imagine how she will feel in terms of power when she is 20-25's.


Its not about age. There are just girls who are the LTR type, and girls who are short relation type. Same about men.

 

[S0LID]

Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
I strongly dislike those sort of guys who try to bag the little hb's, 'its that catch em young & watch em grow mentality'
whereas I find it impossible to look @ any girl younger to me by 3 years romantically or sexually. Its like I hear Michael jackson playing in my head when I try to
IMO they cant find girls their own age so they bag the younger girls & mess it up for the younger guys .

OMG, I just got back from hanging around with him and his little girl and it was getting shocking. He kept saying to her "your gonna end up leaving me anyways when you get some money". i was like "dude you sound so insecure and clingy", she agreed. She was on the phone, and she said "omg hes a pain in the arse!".

I'm sure his new plan is to make her put on weight. Don't get me wrong, she still has a nice shape, BUT shes put on about 14lbs already, this year!

He is such an AFC, although he is good at the initial pick up phase. He constantly brags about what hes got and stuff. He said "o michelle, your gonna leave me after you get all the stuff i buy you, then my next g/f will do the same", I goes "you wont have another g/f if your hair keeps falling out". She burst into laughter.

Anyone agree that hes a pathetic AFC? I have got another AFC friend, i'll tell you about him tomoz.