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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A theory about girls 18 and below...

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(I’m 18 btw)

The hot 21-year-old chick who washes my hair at the salon opened up my eyes to something the other day...

Basically she said that I should only date older chicks, because most girls 18 and under are mentally unstable

Now this might cause some arguement, but it makes sense, and it proves true with my experience.

When girls (good looking girls especially) are 17 and 18 and even 19 in some cases, they are just coming to terms with their newfound power over men. Its confusing and empowering for them, they realize they can screw whatever guy they want too basically. (of course they don’t want to be called a slut, but they can still do it). It’s hard for them to maintain a healthy solid relationship with this going on in their minds.

Now I compared all the older chicks I’ve been with and all the 17 and 18 year old chicks I’ve been with…
The 17 and 18 year olds were stress, drama, and heartbreak. While the relationships with the older girls I’ve been with were fun and healthy… the theory worked a 100% in my case

Whether this was posted or not I dunno…

What do you guys think?


btw i haven't gotten the shampoo chicks number yet...she keeps telling me about how she hates her bf... what do i do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So basically your proposal is that older people tend to be more mature?

Earth shattering.
 

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Hell yeah I agree. I definitely think teenage girls and most college girls have mental issues. But most older chicks feel weird about dating younger guys, that's where the whole thing is fukked up.

I'd love to date an older woman, they just won't date someone younger then them hierarchy wise(i.e. I'm a sophomore. Because I'm a sophomore, a senior will not date me, even if she happened to be 20 too)
 

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yea, i look older tho, i can lie if i need too in order pull it off... lol
 

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Uh excuse me, there are wack job women of all ages. I knew (know) quite a few well adjusted 16-18 year old girls. I also know lots of serously derranged girls who are 18+

Take my room mates ex girlfriend, She's 21 and she's completely off her rocker. She just put a rock through our window for getting caught cheating on him!

What makes things worse is this wacko still calls him telling him how much she still loves him... After she told everyone at her work that he beats her and was thinking about pressing charges!! Beats her? I've seen HIM come home with black eyes after seeing her!!

So don't judge a book by its cover. Inter view your girls, no matter what age and see what they have to offer.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by diablo
So basically your proposal is that older people tend to be more mature?

Earth shattering.
Hey diablo, I've only been on here a little while, but it seems you like to take sarcastic jabs at people quite often. I guess the little power someone gave you has gone to your head?
 

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Hey diablo, I've only been on here a little while, but it seems you like to take sarcastic jabs at people quite often. I guess the little power someone gave you has gone to your head?
I've noticed that too.. wtf?
 

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On average there is a major shift in maturity for girls around 18 and again around 24. Guys never "mature" but some do get more boring.
 

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(I’m 18 btw)

The hot 21-year-old chick who washes my hair at the salon opened up my eyes to something the other day...

Basically she said that I should only date older chicks, because most girls 18 and under are mentally unstable
...
What do you guys think?
I think that was the golden opportunity. She basically handed you the ball.

Her: You should only date older chicks.
You: Friday at 8 it is.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yea **** your right...

if that were a chick my age i woulda been all over that, i dunno older chicks are intimidating, i gotta get over that
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
...I think that was the golden opportunity. She basically handed you the ball.

Her: You should only date older chicks.
You: Friday at 8 it is.
Exactly. She's 21 (older than you), has complained about her bf, and advises you to date older women. Just put 2 and 2 together.
 

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The problem is dudes taking younger girls too seriously...They want to get into a relationship with them and all that...All you gotta do is call them out on their sh1t and be ready to ditch their ass, treat them like the kids they are...Thats why people like younger girls, theyre so easy to control cause you have power over them cause of age and status...They wont go anywhere, belive me...
 

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Originally posted by diablo
So basically your proposal is that older people tend to be more mature?

Earth shattering.

ROFL
:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
The problem is dudes taking younger girls too seriously...They want to get into a relationship with them and all that...All you gotta do is call them out on their sh1t and be ready to ditch their ass, treat them like the kids they are...Thats why people like younger girls, theyre so easy to control cause you have power over them cause of age and status...They wont go anywhere, belive me...
nope how easy they are to control depends on how much they are attracted to you. Try controling a young girl that doesnt like you that much, you wont get anywhere.
 

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Re: Re: A theory about girls 18 and below...

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
A theory about girls 18 and below...

...statutory rape.



lol
 

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Re: Re: A theory about girls 18 and below...

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
A theory about girls 18 and below...

...statutory rape.
Only in the boring places.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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