"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

A Thanks To Those Who Tried..

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

S

Stéphane

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
505
Reaction score
4
The Damned said:
Whats the point though when your older, I feel like over 8 years of my life have been stolen, theres things in my life that are past repairable.
Even if things did turn out 'okay' for me I would always have bitterness over the past and the fact that what was meant to be the best part of my life turned out so bad.
My Life so far has made me Ill, reliant on meds, full of anxiety and angry that the people in life who dont deserve it always seem to get further.
At one time I tried to make myself believe that all this is my fault and that I must deserve what has happened to me but now I know looking at others that I havent deserved any of this.
Click to expand...
Remember the events of the past, but forget the emotions.
 
A

Answers

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 26, 2007
Messages
269
Reaction score
1
The Damned said:
Whats the point though when your older, I feel like over 8 years of my life have been stolen, theres things in my life that are past repairable.
Even if things did turn out 'okay' for me I would always have bitterness over the past and the fact that what was meant to be the best part of my life turned out so bad.
My Life so far has made me Ill, reliant on meds, full of anxiety and angry that the people in life who dont deserve it always seem to get further.
At one time I tried to make myself believe that all this is my fault and that I must deserve what has happened to me but now I know looking at others that I havent deserved any of this.
Click to expand...
I know how you feel! I'm 27 and waisted most of my life but I have a plan to change it over the next year and a half.

The reason people who succeed and who don't deserve to succeed is because they think they do deserve it and expect to succeed. Think positive and positive things will happen and think negative and negative things will happen. Its YOUR choice.

As well as the power of now try reading The Secret. Its easy to understand. People have given you loads of tips in this thread so thats something to feel good about!
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top