"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A thank you to sosauve from a former AFC

Couto

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I would actually like to take this time to say thank you, you've changed and saved my life. Thank you for everyone that posts here, thank you to The Book of Pook for changing my life, thank you for the red pill, thank you for your advice, your experience, your wisdom. I am honest to the god which I don't believe in grateful that I have found this forum many years ago. My story is at the top. Advice is at the bottom.

I found this forum when I was 19 about to turn 20. I read The book of pook, it motivated me to start working out. I am addicted to working out which is great because was 120 5'6 kid when i started at 19.
The motivation for me to overcome the social anxiety I developed due to acne, smoking too much weed, feeling inadequate, caring what people thought was what made me find this site. Through the motivation I gained here and from the Book of Pook made me go back to school to pursue something I loved. It made me go out when I felt like vomiting in social situations, I quit weed, I ate healthy, I fixed my acne, I developed a sense of style, I'm comfortable talking to people so much more and people are shocked when I tell them I had social anxiety, I feel like a social God at times. I am comfortable. Confident, Secure in my mind, in control, I deal with my emotions better, every month and year that passes I give less and less of a **** about what people think about me and for that I THANK YOU SO MUCH.
**Advice**
You may have noticed I haven't mentioned anything about women because that's what I've discovered. Women are the least important part of the equation in terms of attracting women.

You don't have to be anything BUT a man for women to be attracted to you. I never got girls when younger but I realized just by being a man in general there is a chance she is attracted to you. I believe parts of this forum focuses too much of what to do when the women says this or when she does this. I believe it doesn't matter, you focus should be on self improvement. Lift, get good style, do things to make yourself physically attractive, do things that make you more money, do things that make you more fun, more social, more CONFIDENT. Apply yourself toward self improvement, the by product of that is people gravitate you more. Please focus on how to improve yourself to the maximum value man you can, when you do that women ****ing want you. Bad. It's all about increasing your value, if a girl is super hot what she says doesn't matter shes hot and you want to **** her. When a mans value is high what he says or doesn't say matters less and less she just sees the high value.

I'm 5'6. I slay. Height matters 100% but not nearly as much as you'd assume, some girls dont care if you've got a lot of other things going for you. Also looks matter a ton in this day in age, every time I put on more muscle and especially after I grew my beard I get way more replys, numbers, matches on OLD it's awesome. Could you slay without working out a ton, a good sense of style and all that ****. Sure but why play with the disadvantage?
I'm not a DJ, I'm still improving towards it but I see a future now.

Also All women are the same, don't trick yourself into thinking otherwise. and on more thing DONT ****ING JACK OFF. Again, Thank you so much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks pal. As a fellow 5'6" young man this was inspiring. I agree that the more you make of yourself as a man, the more women will be attracted to you, and you don't have to worry about using tricks to get them. Either you're high value or you're not. You can't fake that stuff.
 

soulforge

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I'm a 5ft7 guy myself.. online dating I am actually 5ft8 haha


Anyhow everyone at work calls me BIG MAN simply because i have been training crazy for years, and have a good muscular frame..

The height thing does not bother me anymore.. There are dudes taller than me, who look like chit and I could physically smash them into next week

I like the ops post... Some awesome advice here!

Just be a man.. Stop giving fuks what people think!

Earn cash... And lift CRAZY
 

TheGambino

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I'm a 5ft7 guy myself.. online dating I am actually 5ft8 haha


Anyhow everyone at work calls me BIG MAN simply because i have been training crazy for years, and have a good muscular frame..

The height thing does not bother me anymore.. There are dudes taller than me, who look like chit and I could physically smash them into next week

I like the ops post... Some awesome advice here!

Just be a man.. Stop giving fuks what people think!

Earn cash... And lift CRAZY
That’s the motto. Dont let no one hold You down. NO one
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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