Yea I've already read it all, all the stuff I could find on sunshine girls, attention ho and the like.
What I require is an impartial judgement on a particular girl's actions/behaviors, because I am not sure where she fits into the typical descriptions.
So here it goes; she is attractive (8.5 at least), she's very sexy in an understated way (never wears shorts or skirts, shows much skin etc.), she doesn't dress to attract attention, she does have a lot of guy friends, she has lots of attractive girl friends, spends equally time with either group, doesn't try to stand out at a party, she is like everybody else, I have observed her as impartially as I can over the 2 years I've known her and although she does know how to work it/flirt with the average AFC it honestly doesn't seem like that is her mission.
Here's my history with her, met through friends, immediately after she has since consistently been checking me out, still does it a year later, plays with her hair, when I sit beside her she will consistently have open body language (arms open, plays with hair/exposes the side of her face/neck nearest me, legs crossed open toward me.... and on and on), a bunch of us went out for supper -she sat shoulders facing me, when a buddy was telling a story, I could see her staring at me (she was looking the opposite way that everybody else was).... and on and on. She will completely ignore me like I don't exist most of the time, but if I approach her then she is all smiles, laughs at my jokes, when I bust on her she busts on me right back, I am under her skin and she's under mine.
What has thrown me is; I have tried several times in the past to get her to join me when I am going to things, but only once did she return my call, I busted on her for never answering her phone "what is your phone broken..." I gave her a ride on my motorbike, she had so much fun she must have told everyone I know, she knows stuff about me that I have never told her. One time I 'kidnapped' her, I took her by the hand and told her come with me were going for drinks, she willingly came, enjoyed herself. I call her a week later to ask her if she would come with to a concert I was going to, didn't return my call. Yet she still does all the things she has always done.
I am too stubborn to give up, I date other girls (she knows about it), I am certainly not sitting at home with oneitis, she intrigues me - so can anybody give me some ideas what is up with her (no she is not a lesbo either). I am missing something!
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