A tale of two girls: your opinions please

[jafyk]

Well man, it's your choice whether or not you want to pursue Cherie,but you'd still have a better shot with her than with Ashley. In one of your earlier post,you asked how it was that you fell into the friendzone with Ashley. It's obvious to me how. You said that whenever you play soccer with her and she scored,you gave her a hug. That's not kino. You classify that as kino? I'm sure that some of the other players on your team also hugged her or gave her hi-fives. Were they kinoing her as well? Why would she think that you hugging her after a goal would be any different than another guy on the team giving her a hug after a goal? Whenever you have constant,repeated contact with a woman,her mind forms an opinion of you. If she doesn't feel chemistry with these repeated contacts,you'll fall into the friendzone. This is if you have repeated conacts with you talking to her about whatever(sports,the weather,school,etc.) You fall into the friendzone by DEFAULT. So basically,it's over with Ashley. You can try the "deep voice" thing if you want,but she'll just throw that "business/as a friend" thing in your face again.

You guys are starting to psyche me up now, lol. I can understand how thigns can be lost in translation or left to interpretation when reading someone's post. Basically, she rarely scores anyway and we are not always on the same team. The high fives and hugs aren't often. Besides, I'm the only one there that really talks thrash to her and challenges her and she does it back to me. I notice she doesn't talk that way with the other guys. With them she basically keeps it to business. Anyway, I will play it cool and feel her out, try to set up a date until I get any serious "No" (that's assuming it's not a "yes") until then will I back off. For me I have nothing to loose, like I said she wouldn't make a bad friend either worst case scenario.

 

[jafyk]

Ok, I'm just giving you guys an update. I played soccer again yesterday with Ashley and we were on opposing teams. Anyway she clattered into my knee (hurts slightly) during play. Anyway, my team won. I called her a few hours later to ask her out (this is the 2nd time I've called her but the first time I was gonna ask her out) She didn't pick up and I left a message "Good game... give me a call back when you get this message) I still haven't heard back from her. So, I guess you guys are right she's not interested and I will treat her accordingly.

 

[daygameguy]

Ok, I'm just giving you guys an update. I played soccer again yesterday with Ashley and we were on opposing teams. Anyway she clattered into my knee (hurts slightly) during play. Anyway, my team won. I called her a few hours later to ask her out (this is the 2nd time I've called her but the first time I was gonna ask her out) She didn't pick up and I left a message "Good game... give me a call back when you get this message) I still haven't heard back from her. So, I guess you guys are right she's not interested and I will treat her accordingly.

Get a real hottie to the soccer match next time, and put her in your team, and make Ashley jealous like Sh1t!

You can get a hottie as an accomplice by simply talking to a hottie and telling her you like this one girl and want to get her attention by making her a little jealous. Try it. Girls love to help.

 

[jafyk]

Thanks, good idea. In the mean time I'm gonna skip soccer this week I need to give my groin and hamstring time to heal. The new season is starting pretty soon.

 

[daygameguy]

Thanks, good idea. In the mean time I'm gonna skip soccer this week I need to give my groin and hamstring time to heal. The new season is starting pretty soon.

Trust me, if that girl SEES you with your arm around another girls waist.. who is hotter than her.. she will become your puppet.

Next time, pretend like she has taken Ashley's place in your team and your life.. and is actually sharing a better relationship with you. This will destroy ashley. She will feel it. She may not SAY anything though. BUT, if you talk to her after this, her responses will be coming from a totally different perspective.

Whatever you have done in the past with Ashley, all your mistakes, don't mean sh1t once you become preselected.

If I have an HB 10 in my arms, I can say the absolute WORST things about me directly to people i meet, still they HAVE to find me compelling and attractive, simply because I have the HB10 in my arms.

 

[jafyk]

I was walking from one of my classes today and I see Cherie before she could see me; so I pretended to be reading a paper while I walked on. I wanted to see if she saw me first, if she'd say hi. Well, she said hi and I looked up from the paper to say hi back. The fact that she supposedly saw me first and said hi when I wasn't looking her way, does that mean anything?