"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

A tale of two bachelors, why some guys succeed these days and others don't.

Joined
Aug 29, 2020
Messages
31
Reaction score
33
Age
34
I noticed after reading around this forum that there are some guys who seem to be doing all of the right things, making enough approaches, and being bold but have little to show for it. Then on the other side you have guys that have it all figured out and are doing well despite not making a lot of cold approaches or being that pickup guru. So why is it that some men succeed and others fail these days? I think this post below explains it well in a story of two bachelors and how they go about dating differently, why one has success and the other does not.

 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top