A tad confused about what this means.

[fuko2007]

So i texted an old plate of mine the other day and got a response back saying " you know i have a bf now right?" I said back "no, but that sucks". She replied back " delete my number and never contact me again". Well yester day i get a text from her saying that was her bf on her phone.

At wich point i seized that opportunity to make him look like a pvssy boy. I asked her why he was going through her phone and asked if he had some issues with insecurity. She said YES! hahaha and that he had been pissing her off and had stared telling her lies about the things he was doing.

So i had the perfect setup as of that point was not about to be an emotional tampon. So i threw out there that i had moved and she should come stay a night. She said ok but wait till next weekend when her bf is working. A little chit chat ensued then she goes dont expect any sex. I was like wtf.

So then a little bit thru our convo she says "i feel like the only reason you want me to come is to hook up, wich is fine just let me know in advance". Now yall tell me what in the HELL is that ? We go from no sex to this. I would think i have it in the bag anyway if she is coming to stay and has a bf. But that one threw me off a bit. What do yall think?

 

[Desdinova]

Never listen to a woman's words, listen to her actions. If she actually DOES show up, then she's "testing the waters" to see if there's "still anything there". Tell her you just wanna chill and watch movies with her AS A FRIEND. If she shows up, flirt with her and make it fun.

After that, she will feel that there's "still something there".

 

[:-)]

i had a girl who replied to text saying she was happy with the man of her dreams and how she was going to have a daughter in february.

7 years later she told me it must have been her husband who did that...

 

[fuko2007]

i had a girl who replied to text saying she was happy with the man of her dreams and how she was going to have a daughter in february.

7 years later she told me it must have been her husband who did that...

lol...not trying to be a **** but thats funny

 

[Starfvcks 64]

Her boyfriend made the mistake of not deleting the texts from her inbox after he sent them.

Honestly, her saying "dont expect any sex" isn't a bad sign. She'll probably have sex with you if you do like Desdinova said and say that you just want to hang out as friends. Girls need to have "plausible deniability." She felt bad for agreeing to meet up with you so eagerly because she's worried you are just using her for sex and thinks you'll judge her for that - it doesn't mean that she doesn't want you to use her for sex.

It is an ex though, so hopefully this isn't a girl you may still have feelings for, because that would be all bad.

 

[fuko2007]

Her boyfriend made the mistake of not deleting the texts from her inbox after he sent them.

Honestly, her saying "dont expect any sex" isn't a bad sign. She'll probably have sex with you if you do like Desdinova said and say that you just want to hang out as friends. Girls need to have "plausible deniability." She felt bad for agreeing to meet up with you so eagerly because she's worried you are just using her for sex and thinks you'll judge her for that - it doesn't mean that she doesn't want you to use her for sex.

It is an ex though, so hopefully this isn't a girl you may still have feelings for, because that would be all bad.

I mean we never dated and i dont have any emotional ties to her. We just hooked up twice in the past and hung out a little. I think she is the one who got feelings for me and i didnt have them for her so she took off and got dated up. Would not be the first time this happend, she was dateing another douchebag and i got her to break up with him. I think she thought that if she broke up with him i was goiing to date her.

 

[fuko2007]

bump....need more input.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Her: i feel like the only reason you want me to come is to hook up, wich is fine just let me know in advance.
Me: You're damn right! now get your a$$ over to my place pronto!

whenever a girl brings up sex in whatever context it's usually a green light.

 

[fuko2007]

word

 

[Robert28]

I see you're from SC. The women in this state are very stupid and tend to date the bottom of the barrel when it comes to guys.

 

[fuko2007]

True, you would be amazed at how stupid some are. Or how emotionally retarded they are when it comes to being in relationships. You from SC?

 

[Robert28]

True, you would be amazed at how stupid some are. Or how emotionally retarded they are when it comes to being in relationships. You from SC?

Yep and I've seen it and heard it all. I know a girl....GEORGEOUS girl too, she dates the absolute most feminine acting/looking men you'd ever want to see. Not only that but they have to be piss poor too. She dated my friend for like a month, he owns a very successful landscaping company and makes REALLY good money. He works with his hands, doesn't drink lite beer, drives a truck. Now she dates some dude that works the front desk at Holiday Inn and probably never got his hands dirty in his life. I don't know how to explain what I'm trying to get across, I'd have to show you.

Another thing is if you're 30+ and have never been married or don't have any kids women here will see that as a red flag. They wonder what's wrong with you because you're supposed to have a kid, be divorced, be broke as sh!t because somehow that makes you "normal". Well fvck that. I don't have any kids because I don't want any, I've never been married because my standards are HIGH and I'm not lowering them, and I make very good money. If they want to date trash let them date trash.

 

[fuko2007]

The girl i was seeing for a while has a good job divorced and no kids. She just turned 40 though and is just like that. A head case and messed up. She jumped from me to a guy who is 44 divorced and has a kid he is not in care of but some weekends. He works in a machine place also. I think most girls here while they are hot are low quality.

 

[fuko2007]

Bump....so kept texting the girl that is supposed to come over..kept it light then started drinking and got a little brave. Convo ended with her calling her BF her boy toy and that she was fvck me good hahahahaahahaha.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Yeah man, when a woman says she's coming over. But turns around and starts telling me were not having sex. It's just an invitation to flirt around a bit as far as i'm concerned.

 

[fuko2007]

Yeah man, when a woman says she's coming over. But turns around and starts telling me were not having sex. It's just an invitation to flirt around a bit as far as i'm concerned.

I hate when they do that , its a tease. Im just glad this one is a definiate lay

 

[teddy]

Never listen to a woman's words, listen to her actions. If she actually DOES show up, then she's "testing the waters" to see if there's "still anything there". Tell her you just wanna chill and watch movies with her AS A FRIEND. If she shows up, flirt with her and make it fun.

After that, she will feel that there's "still something there".

Isn't this a good way to get friend zoned? I'm still confused by all this talk of avoiding acting like a friend to a woman if you want to stay out of friend zone....yet others say to use it as a guise.

 

[Desdinova]

Isn't this a good way to get friend zoned? I'm still confused by all this talk of avoiding acting like a friend to a woman if you want to stay out of friend zone....yet others say to use it as a guise.

Women respond to ACTIONS, and they also speak truth in their ACTIONS. You want to treat her as if you're attracted to her, but you've put a verbal wedge in between the both of you by friend-zoning her. But by using kino, teasing, and being playful, you're making her want to remove that friend-zone barrier. It's like teasing a dog by dangling a steak over his head, and telling him "NO". The dog will go crazy for that damn steak until it eventually says "fvck it" and steals it from you.

However, if you friend-zone her and then TREAT her as a friend, then you've made your friendship-only status valid.

 

[fuko2007]

Bump. I think i had the best flake ever. Not the girl i was talking about in the thread but a girl ive been talking to for about 3 weeks. She came over saturday and was kissing me etc we hung out and i took her home. Well she was supposed to go eat with me and my family sunday. I was otw to pick her up for lunch and she called saying she would drive herself there. I was almost to her house so i told her to follow me. Now she was dressed up so she took time to get ready. Well otw to to the place she stops and TURNS AROUND! Yes she TURNED AROUND.

Well i was like wtf? she called me and fed me some b/s story of her mom an her were fighting and she was upset and couldnt do this right now. So i said ok ill talk to you when were done. Well here is the best part 10 min later i get a TEXT FROM HER SAYING I CANT SEE YOU ANYMORE. Now whats that ****. Then she says she dsnt know where things are headed and she will talk to me later. I told her dont bother