"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been noticing alot of bootcamp threads lately...is it possible to have a seperate forum for them? It would make the threads alot easier to keep up with, especially with the tons of stuff being posted lately. Anyway, thats my suggestion...thanks for your time

*just noticed its been suggested already...mods, please delete this thread because i dont know how to...thanks :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by lbfan1638
*just noticed its been suggested already...mods, please delete this thread because i dont know how to...thanks :)
We can't, only allen can....
 

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I dun care, I think its fine as is.
 

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True, but it seems as though there's been a rush of boot camp journals in the past few weeks. Perhaps it's a Christmas fad, but if there were one section devoted to it then it might stir up interest - thereby encouraging more people to finish up their own bootcamps, causing them to become more useful to both the forum and themselves.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by diablo
True, but it seems as though there's been a rush of boot camp journals in the past few weeks. Perhaps it's a Christmas fad, but if there were one section devoted to it then it might stir up interest - thereby encouraging more people to finish up their own bootcamps, causing them to become more useful to both the forum and themselves.
I feel an idea coming on...
 

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our leader :p


the 1 they call allen:p
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
our leader :p


the 1 they call allen:p
Lol yes, we must worship him or BAN!!!11one
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by Vincent
Lol yes, we must worship him or BAN!!!11one
wowo this all sounds a bit odd now, because after seeing a member here called helter skelter and a refrence ot helter skelter in a film with no explenation what so ever of it, i decided to spend my evening finding out what it was.

and there leader chalres manson, got the idea form a song called helter skelter by the beatles, that he should get a group of 144,000 people and start killing people, so that the white people would attack the black people, when they realised what they have done they will split and start a civil war and destroy each other leaving only charles manson and his 'family' to create a better civilisation, and this he called helter skelter.

freaky isnt it
 
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