For years I have kept a list of chicks that I have either dated or who expressed definite interest in me just bevause I am insecure and wanted to have the list to make me realize I am not completely hopeless. Those who showed interest that was ambiguous I eliminated. Of course the ones I listed are just the ones that I noticed and knew had interest. There may be more that I didn't recognize because i am usually pretty oblivious to signs of interest and even approaches sometimes. Anyway my list includes around 35. I'm just wondering, is this a good indicator of how good my chances would be if I actually overcame shyness and took some action?
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A Stupid Psychological Project Based on Insecurity
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Phantasmal
Senior Don Juan
Yes.
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Thanks for the confirmation on that. I am in full realization that this post is kind of stupid and shows the community here what an absolute insecure AFC I am.
I just have always wondered why I have been the center of interest so many times and have rarely been able to turn it into anything. I don't know how I can blow so many opportunities.
I just have always wondered why I have been the center of interest so many times and have rarely been able to turn it into anything. I don't know how I can blow so many opportunities.
jakethasnake
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Jesus. Of course. 
This is fvcking linear logic.
Those girls show interest. Therefore, if you give the green light by showing interest back and asking them out - what happens? Ta-da! You end up fvcking them.
You could've gotten laid 34 times by now. Think about that.
This is fvcking linear logic.
Those girls show interest. Therefore, if you give the green light by showing interest back and asking them out - what happens? Ta-da! You end up fvcking them.
You could've gotten laid 34 times by now. Think about that.
all the same
Another thing they dont tell you mate. You can even include the older ones or the less attractive ones in that list. If you are mid 20's and a woman of 35 shows interest, even if she isn't in mint condition, she has still shown what other women probably think as well. Once one chick shows interest, you are doing something right, even the ugly ones want a hot root.
Im not saying to reciprocate the interest, just exapnding your list for you. Its obvious really. Short, fat, ugly older men show interest in beatiful young chicks right? Just because a chick hasn't got it all, she still is attracted to the same bloke that a hottie is. So expand your list to include the ones you couldn't give a toss about.
Another thing they dont tell you mate. You can even include the older ones or the less attractive ones in that list. If you are mid 20's and a woman of 35 shows interest, even if she isn't in mint condition, she has still shown what other women probably think as well. Once one chick shows interest, you are doing something right, even the ugly ones want a hot root.
Im not saying to reciprocate the interest, just exapnding your list for you. Its obvious really. Short, fat, ugly older men show interest in beatiful young chicks right? Just because a chick hasn't got it all, she still is attracted to the same bloke that a hottie is. So expand your list to include the ones you couldn't give a toss about.
Re: all the same
Ian19 - for your sake get over this shyness, you're missing out on so many opportunities. I've been there.
I think it's a bad sign for your looks if a girl who is barely average looking is hitting on you. It's totally different when men are hitting on women.
Ian19 - for your sake get over this shyness, you're missing out on so many opportunities. I've been there.
Don Corleone
Don Juan
you seem to like keeping lists. from now on start keeping a list of the ones that liked you/the ones you hit on.
start today. any female that shows the slightest bit of attraction for you, just hit on her. it doesnt have to turn out great, hell you might even get rejected but atleast you will know how well your coming along
females interested/the ones you hit on=_____x100=%
not hard, your a smart kid.
example 2(interested)/1(hit on)=.5x100=50% of the time you are being a man. the other 50% of the time your being an AFC.
either try this crap or just fvck any girl thats decent looking my friend.
"I made her an offer she couldn't refuse"
start today. any female that shows the slightest bit of attraction for you, just hit on her. it doesnt have to turn out great, hell you might even get rejected but atleast you will know how well your coming along
females interested/the ones you hit on=_____x100=%
not hard, your a smart kid.
example 2(interested)/1(hit on)=.5x100=50% of the time you are being a man. the other 50% of the time your being an AFC.
either try this crap or just fvck any girl thats decent looking my friend.
"I made her an offer she couldn't refuse"
just to clarify
Just so fatality can "keep up" with the issue. My point is that your 35 list probably only included chicks you were interested in. Your list should also remember that ANY chick interested in you is a good sign. eg. Half of Brad Pitts fan base are ugly as sin, they want the same thing that the hotties want.
Once again, just for fatality's sake, don't reciprocate it, maybe just be polite but the theme is, your list is probably a lot bigger, why aren't you doing something about it?
Just so fatality can "keep up" with the issue. My point is that your 35 list probably only included chicks you were interested in. Your list should also remember that ANY chick interested in you is a good sign. eg. Half of Brad Pitts fan base are ugly as sin, they want the same thing that the hotties want.
Once again, just for fatality's sake, don't reciprocate it, maybe just be polite but the theme is, your list is probably a lot bigger, why aren't you doing something about it?
Re: just to clarify
I'm talking about girls that actually hit on you. Not girls that are just interested. Of course ugly girls will be interested in hot guys but they know they are not in their league therefore they won't hit on him. Understand?
actually no
I didn't get that impression from his post, he seemed to be counting women that simply looked at him. I could have it all wrong. One thing we would agree on fatality, is, whats with the list? He should ACT on the list.
One other thing, ugly chicks will hit on good looking guys, haven't you ever had a drunk scag try and pick you up? Be honest, you know you have, you just ignored her, but they do dude, all the time. I had a toothless chick threaten to kick me in the nuts if I didn't fukc her. Thing is, it's still flattering to have a chick stare at you longingly, even if she looks like Rosanne Barr, Im always polite to them.
I didn't get that impression from his post, he seemed to be counting women that simply looked at him. I could have it all wrong. One thing we would agree on fatality, is, whats with the list? He should ACT on the list.
One other thing, ugly chicks will hit on good looking guys, haven't you ever had a drunk scag try and pick you up? Be honest, you know you have, you just ignored her, but they do dude, all the time. I had a toothless chick threaten to kick me in the nuts if I didn't fukc her. Thing is, it's still flattering to have a chick stare at you longingly, even if she looks like Rosanne Barr, Im always polite to them.