"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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a stripper gave me her numbers. Now what should I do?

luv2spwg

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I went to a strip club couple weeks ago. Got into couple of VIP's with one girl.

Went there again this week. She came up to me and sat next to me. She told me she remembers me. Then asked me if I work, I told her I am a student, she showed me a picture of her child. Later, I did some more VIPs with her. Then during the dance, she asked me if I got a gf. I said no. She then asked me to lets exchange phone numbers. I said ok.

What should I do now? I totally did not expect that and don't know what to do. I mean, I have never dated a stripper. Any advise?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hope you like cocaine and girl's with lunatic ex-boyfriends.
 

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Well, if you told her you're a student she's not after you for money. She's hot for you, plain and simple.

Call her. Soon enough that she doesn't forget or find another fellow who will give her if she's hard up for some booty and seeking a target.

P.S. Have industrial-strength condoms on hand.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Be careful, you are her client and most likely the reason she remembered you is because you were her VIP who probably tipped good and she wants to keep you as her main client aka sugar daddy.

She could be a stripper in the clubs and a real life prostitute on the side.... either way its money is what ultimatley she could be after.

luv2spwg said:
, she showed me a picture of her child.
That is fvcked up right there. She is baring her t1ts and ass to the crowd and goes right up to a client and shows her a picture of her baby!! common sense tends to fly out the window with these women. Care to guess where and under what circumstances that baby was conceived?? could it be that you are being set up into becoming "baby daddy" number 2?! child-support payments tend to be the new business venture these days.

RUN FOR THE HILLS!!
 

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Jayer said:
How was the vip? did she let you touch her all over? How much money did you drop?
It was fun. She led me touch pretty much everywhere except down there. I dropped hundreds of dollars.

Jimbo2k said:
Do you appear like you have money?
I appeared like I have a few hundred dollars to spend. Did that made me look loaded?

DJDamage said:
Care to guess where and under what circumstances that baby was conceived?? could it be that you are being set up into becoming "baby daddy" number 2?! child-support payments tend to be the new business venture these days.

You mean I have to support her child if I date her? Thats kinda weird, cuz I am a kid myself who still lives with parents and uses parents' money.

But I mean, she decided not to have an abortion and raised her child by herself. Thats an honorable thing to do, so she could be a decent person, right?


Thanks for all your advises, but keep them coming.
 

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luv2spwg said:
You mean I have to support her child if I date her?
No it means that she is going to make another baby with you and you will support that child.

luv2spwg said:
But I mean, she decided not to have an abortion and raised her child by herself. Thats an honorable thing to do, so she could be a decent person, right?
An honorable thing to do is get married so the kid will start his life on the right foot. An honorable thing to do is to quit this lifestyle for the benefit of her family and to find a safer more respectable environment to work in. Those days any fool can make a baby and has nothing to do with honor.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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speakeasy said:
Hope you like cocaine and girl's with lunatic ex-boyfriends.
P.S. Have industrial-strength condoms on hand.
Why did you answer her directly when she asked if you have a GF? This woman shows her titz and a$$ to strange men everyday, yet she wants to know if you have a GF?! LOL. I would never answer a stripper that question. "None of your fvucking business!" is my answer.
You virgins crack me up.

I'd rather a stripper who pulls in $100k/yr from morons than a schoolteacher who ****s 30 guys/yr trying to land the guy with the 100k+/yr salary. I'm not trying to justify strippers here, but really these guys have obviously never actually meet any (well maybe the ones who took their money and gave them their bitter attitudes).

Hors are hors regardless of their occupation. In general strippers are more hustlers than *****s and can get guys to open their wallets without opening their panties. Normal hors (read: the kinds of girls that you wouldn't start a post about their careers) cant do that so they give it up and expect a return on their investment.

I have no idea where any of you guys are from but drugs like cocaine are more the norm for people with an active nightlife than not. To be honest I can probably only rattle off about 5% of people that I grew up with who have not ever done coke. I can tell you the % of strippers that I hang out with that dont do coke is higher, or at least they hide it better.

OP - you definetly sound like a cash cow. Dont judge people by their jobs (or sterotypes about their jobs) but dont be stupid either and realize that you're being used.
 

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luv2spwg said:
It was fun. She led me touch pretty much everywhere except down there. I dropped hundreds of dollars.
You're her trick. Nothing more. Nothing you do, say or pay her will turn you into anything but a walking sausage with a wallet.
 

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Strippers are a waste of money. In most cases (not all) its those washed up party girls from high school (who are faukin mad hot might I add, not always though) that never decided what to do with their lives. So they strip.

But there are other reasons that I am not sure of.
 

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Burn the number.

Giving well paying customers their phone number is Stripping 101.

At this point, unless proven otherwise, all she sees you as is $$$$.
 

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Hundreds of dollars!?!?! :eek:

That changes the whole equation. It might be different if you got one dance.

She has you tagged as a sucker, period, and is attracted enough to you to want to do you for hundreds of more dollars..

Forget it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Indeed. :rolleyes:

A multi-millionaire who could wipe his ass with Benjamins dropping 'em on lap dances, I might understand.
 

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Ever since the book the game came out there have been a number of guys on here bashing other people man I hate that.
 

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You are a student and you have hundreds to blow on a stripper:crazy: . How?? Tell me!
 

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Why would you want a stripper's number? Why did you give her hundreds of dollars? She did her job well it looks.

BTW Cocaine is the sh!t. :whistle:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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