"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A spin on getting phone numbers

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My friend of mine has claimed great success by doing something rather unconventional....he gives girls HIS number, then if they are interested, they call him. This contradicts the theory that men should do the initiating (not chasing) right?Any feedback on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girls won't call you
but if you want to try it out
do it to 50 girls then report how many actually called

one thing about this thing is DONT WONDER just do it, who knows you might have something there.
 
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Tha Realnezz

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Out of five women like 1 or 2 might give in and call you....out of curiosity.Not worth it since they dig the chase..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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There's some merit to this. I have found that when a woman asks[/u] for my number, she does call. It may not be immediate, but how often do we call a woman immediately after we get their number?
 
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