"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey fellas,

two days ago I was visiting a strip-club after work. After I sat down a VERY fine spanish girl was coming over to me. We started talking and we had a pretty good time. Unfortunately, she had to leave my side after about an hour (she told me that her boss would get mad, if she talks too long with one guest). Ten minutes later I started to leave too, but before I reached the door another stripper grabbed my arm and asked me if I have already exchanged my phonenumber with her friend (the spanish stripper)... after I said "no" she gave me pen and paper and told me to write down my name and number. Afterwards she promised me that her friend will call me...

While I was talking with the spanish stripper I already noticed that she's feeling me, but I thought that it was not more than a flirt.

Well, do you think that the reaction of her friend reflects the spansih girl's feelings and that she's interested in more?

I'm pretty sure that she won't call me, because she was very shy and her German and her Englisch are very bad. So do you think I should visit that club again in order to find out if anything is possible?

A few months ago I was already dating a hot stripper... but in another town and her German was way better, therefore it was way easier to seduce her...

Thanx for your advice!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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so how much money did you drop on the stripper?
 
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leave it be. if she calls you: Great!!!!

if she asks you to drop by the club so she can hang out with you: your being played
 
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you know what a stripper term for an AFC is?

ATM


strippers make ****ty girlfriend anyways. Well, scary, obsessive, cut your **** off when you sleep girlfriends... :(
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by spider_007
leave it be. if she calls you: Great!!!!

if she asks you to drop by the club so she can hang out with you: your being played
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exactly! They do this to make u think they like you so that u come back and spend MORE money. And plus, why degrade urself to a wh0re when there are plenty good quality chicks out there?:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 
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strippers are good for sex but nothing more. also watch out for diseases.
 
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Originally posted by [o_0]
strippers are good for sex but nothing more. also watch out for diseases.
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according to some peole they don't live up to expectations
 
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Originally posted by spider_007
according to some peole they don't live up to expectations
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Some will... some wont.... life goes on. ;)


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you have PLENTY of cash, and are willing to put up with drugs, alcohol, bi-sexuality (not the sexy "threesome" stuff where you are making out with her and her hottie stripper girlfriend after a night of dancing, all naked on a bed, but the based in reality stuff of her rather sleeping with another girl than you) a woman with a MASSIVE ego, and the fact that she flirts and grinds on men for a living, hey, go for it!
 
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If you manage to get her to sleep with you just remember to hide your wallet.
 
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just don't go down on her. God only knows how many others guys she ****ed that day.
 
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Thanx for your replies so far... I can truly understand where you are coming from!

Well, the story goes on like this: A few days later the spanish stripper wrote me a message and we met again in 'her' strip-club. I did not stay there very long because after a few minutes she said that she has worked enough and she asked me if I would like to go to another bar where we could talk in private and drink a coffee. Well, to my surprise she paid for the drinks and we talked for about 2 hours... and at the end she gave me a huge kiss on my lips.

A few days later I went to her club again... we laughed, we touched, and we talked... but she also admitted that she already has a boyfriend for about 6 months and she said that he would kill her if he finds out about me. Despite that, she still asked me if I would like to go to dinner with her next week... she also said that she likes me very much and that she would like to exchange her boyfriend.

Surprisingly, I get all the drinks in that strip-club for free and the main barkeeper said that I'm a "special" guest... don't ask me why!

She's very sweet, but I don't know if the whole situation is a notch too crazy.....?!
 
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Carpe Diem!!! Dude, not everyone gets a chance to be with a stripper, just play your cards nice and cool and enjoy the ride.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wow I was going to post something negative about dating strippers but I just looked at your location and I have no idea what the atmosphere for strip clubs is like in germany so I have no perspective.
 
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